To wonder if you are you with your husband / partner...

[Rowennaravenclaw]

A) Because you love them so much you couldn't live without them.

or

B) Because life with them is easier / better than being single.

Wish I could do a vote but I don't know how. So please comment away! Are you A or B?

A definitely

A

A

A - stayed with XDH for far too long because of B

Neither really. I could live without him if I had to, but I'd really rather not! But yes, I'm with him because I love him, enjoy spending time with him, and because life is better when he's around.

A without a doubt

It's kind of a mix. I could live without him, I've lived alone before, but I love him and I like our life together. I enjoy time apart but miss him and look forward to coming home/him getting home.

A for sure

Both

A

C. Neither, I'd rather be single but can't afford it for now

Oh gosh

Im with isitchristmas

But if you’re making me pick its A 😀

I could live without him. I choose not to.
So yes, a combination of A and B, as it’s worded.

Maybe there's another choice:

C - things were great once (like option A) but it's run it's course and now a bit meh.

I would choose C. Would be happy to separate (quite happy to be single), but not willing to split the family and it's ok really, just not, well, option A.

A

B

B

A

A

B

Thanks for the responses :-)

can we add the C option outlined by Sluggish Snail ? I vote C !

Same as Celehelly:

"Neither really. I could live without him if I had to, but I'd really rather not! But yes, I'm with him because I love him, enjoy spending time with him, and because life is better when he's around."

C - realised life would be better single so left

A

But because of A, B is therefore also true.