"Would Scots move south of the border then if there was independence."
If there was another IndyRef, dh and I would think very seriously about moving back to England - the last one was so bitter and divisive that I don't think I could live through another one. I was opposed to independence in 2014, but unless I was 100% sure of the people I was talking to, I couldn't be open about this because some if the pro-independence campaigners were so vitriolic against those of us who were pro-union. I would not have worn a Better Together badge out in public for fear of verbal attack, nor would I have dared put a poster in the window or a sticker in the car, because of the risk of the windows being smashed - it honestly felt that unsafe to be a No voter.
I don't have the best mental health - I suffer from depression and anxiety - and the IndyRef campaign had a terrible impact on my mental health, to the extent that, by the end, I couldn't watch any of the news coverage or debates because they made me feel so dreadful.
Added to that, neither dh or I think that an independent Scotland will work financially, and we would have to think long and hard about whether our finances would work in an independent Scotland. They might, if he's taken his retirement by then, but it would be a major factor for us.
If another referendum is granted by Westminster, we will have to weigh things up very carefully, and if we do decide we can stay in Scotland if it is independent, I think I will be avoiding all news media for the whole of the campaign - and I still think the worry will make me more depressed.