@DBML
My point is, I earn my money. I work hard. Where’s my incentive to keep working hard.
I want month long vacations around the world and a nice home, because I feel I’ve earned that. Yet, Labour feel that instead, I need to contribute even more
I used to feel the same. First to go to Uni, worked my arse off to build my career, as did my DH. And we wanted the rewards of that. I honestly thought getting benefits was a lifestyle choice for many and I objected to paying for shirkers.
Then I suddenly became disabled after the birth of DD. I had to give up work due to being bedbound much of the time with pain, and my marriage broke up under the strain.
I have had to have medical upon medical for my benefits. I don't mind being assessed at the start - there need to be some safeguards so that people don't take the piss. But I have a chronic condition that will never improve. Despite Drs letters and medical examinations by Capita, I still have to reapply for benefits all too frequently. If I can't attend the medical due to being in too much pain, then my benefits are cancelled. Home visit requests are refused. This has got so much worse under the Tory government.
Moving from other benefits to Universal Credit meant going 5 weeks without money as it is paid in arrears. And even though I am as disabled as I always was, I have lost £50 a week due to austerity. This means I am unable to pay for some of the care I need.
My daughter has autism and her wait for assessment and help, due to NHS staffing shortages, has meant that her distress went on for months, as I was given no support to help her. Support which could only be accessed after she received a diagnosis. Which couldn't be made until the delayed assessment took place.
I would love to be back in the position of wondering where we should spend the summer. It was a much nicer situation to be in than wondering where I can get the most food for my money so I can feed DD well.
I guess it comes down to what people feel it is right to vote for. Will you maximise the money in your own pocket? Or will you realise that bad times can happen to anyone - you or your children - and that support during those times isn't cheap? I always voted for those who were most vulnerable in society and thought others did too. What does it say about people who hear stories like mine, and still vote to keep their holiday, at the expense of someone else eating? Is that who people really want to be?