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To have a crush on Sam Smith

107 replies

Charley1988 · 19/10/2019 10:24

Sam has been 'criticised' on more than one thread here ('criticised' is putting it politely. However just watching their video 'Dancing with a Stranger' and he's gorgeous - tall, lean with good facial features. 😍 Thought they were gorgeous in the 'Promises' video also . Again, tall, handsome, good physique. ❤️ Also young and successful. What's not to love?

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Charley1988 · 19/10/2019 10:25

Sorry meant to say 'they' are gorgeous- must respect the pronouns!!!

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AnneLovesGilbert · 19/10/2019 10:26
Envy
PositiveVibez · 19/10/2019 10:26

Have a crush on who you want. I don't think anyone will be bothered.

Scarlett555 · 19/10/2019 10:28

YANBU. There is someone for everyone.

Igotthemheavyboobs · 19/10/2019 10:28

Are you allowed to call them handsome? Surely there are more gender neutral words to describe them?

Charley1988 · 19/10/2019 10:34

Igot good point....

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8by8 · 19/10/2019 10:36

I mean you can fancy who you want, but I don’t think I could actually spend time with anybody self absorbed and confused enough to say the things sam smith has come out with lately.

DamnShesaSexyChick · 19/10/2019 10:37

You are being extremely unreasonable

SomeoneYouHumped · 19/10/2019 10:37

So you're bisexual then?

Charley1988 · 19/10/2019 10:40

Someone no I'm a straight female - only really attracted to them when they dress Iike a man!!

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SomeoneYouHumped · 19/10/2019 10:41

But by his own identification he ISN'T a man. So you must be bisexual

(this is what you are dealing with these days. No autonomy of sexuality when you play into people like this)

Namechanging2019 · 19/10/2019 10:46

Yeah I did fancy him in his pre-weight loss days. Now he just seems a self absorbed attention seeker - deeply unattractive.
He can dress how he wants and is free to live his lifestyle of choice but that doesn't change his male biology.
His 'request' for his own pronouns are an attempt at controlled speech. Hmm

Oblomov19 · 19/10/2019 10:47

I never found him physically attractive, and now, with all the recent nonsense, can't find him attractive at all. He is very mixed up.

SpunBodgeSquarepants · 19/10/2019 10:47

Before so this non-binary shit, I did too, something about HIS face just really appeals to me. I used to get really excited when he had a new Instagram story 😳
But now I'm considering unfollowing him.

TidyDancer · 19/10/2019 10:48

He's not really my type but he has nice eyes.

Charley1988 · 19/10/2019 10:49

Someone I see your point-but my crush developed from his 'Promises' video-afaik - he wasn't non binary then - certainly not publicly

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nespressowoo · 19/10/2019 10:50

I think Sam Smith is a massive goady twat and can't get passed this with him to be honest.

SomeoneYouHumped · 19/10/2019 10:50

I'm sure he would class you as transphobic for saying such things. Such is the world we live in now.

nespressowoo · 19/10/2019 10:51

Or them I should say. That wasn't intentional.

Charley1988 · 19/10/2019 10:51

Namechanging2019* seri didn't fancy him at all pre weightloss- or pay much attention to him - ''twas that 'Promises' video wot did it!!

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Charley1988 · 19/10/2019 10:52

Sorry should say THEY not him!!

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BanginChoons · 19/10/2019 10:52

His 'request' for his own pronouns are an attempt at controlled speech.

Oh what utter bollocks.

PeterRouseTheFleshofMankind · 19/10/2019 10:53

Yes, technically you are bisexual if you fancy Sam Smith, because 'genitals don't mean anything' and he says he is 'partly a woman'.

Congratulations on coming out - so stunning and brave!

Wheredidigowrongggggg · 19/10/2019 10:54

Op you sound like you’re trying to be on trend here. Look at me, I fancy someone non binary. So what?

Charley1988 · 19/10/2019 10:56

Squarepants I must admit his insta posts are interesting and he seems to be nice to his fans....

Yesterday I was googling his friend Alok who's akso been mentioned once or twice on here

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