To have a crush on Sam Smith

[Charley1988]

Sam has been 'criticised' on more than one thread here ('criticised' is putting it politely. However just watching their video 'Dancing with a Stranger' and he's gorgeous - tall, lean with good facial features. 😍 Thought they were gorgeous in the 'Promises' video also . Again, tall, handsome, good physique. ❤️ Also young and successful. What's not to love?

Sorry meant to say 'they' are gorgeous- must respect the pronouns!!!

Have a crush on who you want. I don't think anyone will be bothered.

YANBU. There is someone for everyone.

Are you allowed to call them handsome? Surely there are more gender neutral words to describe them?

Igot good point....

I mean you can fancy who you want, but I don’t think I could actually spend time with anybody self absorbed and confused enough to say the things sam smith has come out with lately.

You are being extremely unreasonable

So you're bisexual then?

Someone no I'm a straight female - only really attracted to them when they dress Iike a man!!

But by his own identification he ISN'T a man. So you must be bisexual

(this is what you are dealing with these days. No autonomy of sexuality when you play into people like this)

Yeah I did fancy him in his pre-weight loss days. Now he just seems a self absorbed attention seeker - deeply unattractive.
He can dress how he wants and is free to live his lifestyle of choice but that doesn't change his male biology.
His 'request' for his own pronouns are an attempt at controlled speech.

I never found him physically attractive, and now, with all the recent nonsense, can't find him attractive at all. He is very mixed up.

Before so this non-binary shit, I did too, something about HIS face just really appeals to me. I used to get really excited when he had a new Instagram story 😳
But now I'm considering unfollowing him.

He's not really my type but he has nice eyes.

Someone I see your point-but my crush developed from his 'Promises' video-afaik - he wasn't non binary then - certainly not publicly

I think Sam Smith is a massive goady twat and can't get passed this with him to be honest.

I'm sure he would class you as transphobic for saying such things. Such is the world we live in now.

Or them I should say. That wasn't intentional.

Namechanging2019* seri didn't fancy him at all pre weightloss- or pay much attention to him - ''twas that 'Promises' video wot did it!!

Sorry should say THEY not him!!

His 'request' for his own pronouns are an attempt at controlled speech.

Oh what utter bollocks.

Yes, technically you are bisexual if you fancy Sam Smith, because 'genitals don't mean anything' and he says he is 'partly a woman'.

Congratulations on coming out - so stunning and brave!

Op you sound like you’re trying to be on trend here. Look at me, I fancy someone non binary. So what?

Squarepants I must admit his insta posts are interesting and he seems to be nice to his fans....

Yesterday I was googling his friend Alok who's akso been mentioned once or twice on here