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Should I have shared my garlic bread?

345 replies

RobynsMama · 16/10/2019 18:52

Went to Nando’s with some pals, we all like doing this because we all order what we want separately and there’s no faffing with splitting the bill.

Our orders came, and I ordered garlic bread as my side. I love garlic bread, and I love the bread they put their garlic butter on and it’s my fave thing.

Friends meal arrives, she’s ordered chips and coleslaw as her side, looks forlornly over at my perfect garlic bread and says “I wish I’d ordered the garlic bread now”. Someone else pipes up with “oh you’ll know for next time.” And we all
Laughed.

So I just eat my meal and enjoy my (two slices of) garlic bread. She’s got an absolute face on at the end of the meal and I asked her what was up and she said to me “you could’ve offered me one of your slices of garlic bread instead of gutsing them both”.

I wish I was more mature and I wish that comment hadn’t hurt me but I’m in the middle of a weight loss journey (still treating myself to sinful garlic bread sometimes) I have to say it really shocked me and I’ve been thinking about it ever since (i know iabu because it’s just a comment but still). She made me feel like a right gutsy git.

If it was something like an Indian meal I’d have had no problem sharing bits of everything because that’s the kind of meal it is but with something like Nando’s surely you just pick what you want? Was I right to eat both my pieces of garlic bread or should I have offered to share?

OP posts:
Hydrogenbeatsoxygen · 16/10/2019 19:22

What a bitch! No one touches my food! 🤬

Smelborp · 16/10/2019 19:23

That was rude and horrible of her.

She had two sides, wanted them all and wanted half of your only side too. Ironic that she used ‘gutsing’ to describe you not sharing considering how greedy she was being. She could have ordered her own.

malteasergeezer · 16/10/2019 19:23

YABU. It's just a slice of bread, why get so attached to it?

PurpleDaisies · 16/10/2019 19:24

YABU. It's just a slice of bread, why get so attached to it?

Because it’s part of her meal?

EKGEMS · 16/10/2019 19:24

Because it tastes delicious Maltteasergeezer

timshelthechoice · 16/10/2019 19:25

Telling someone they 'gutsied' their own food because they didn't hand over half of it is rude AF.

NoSauce · 16/10/2019 19:25

Yanbu she could have quite easily ordered some for herself too. She sounds a bit bratty OP.

Aridane · 16/10/2019 19:25

YABU to refer to a weight loss jourmey

Aridane · 16/10/2019 19:25

jourmey even

Stuckinanutshell · 16/10/2019 19:26

CF! Greedy cow. What a rude little cowbag.

I would have eaten it all up as well. You ordered it; it’s yours. I notice she didn’t offer you any of hers.

Ignore it. You’ve done nothing wrong.

What a smeg

JonSlow · 16/10/2019 19:26

I would have to call her out on this - why did she decide to use such a revolting term. Make her feel as awkward as you are.

ErrolTheDragon · 16/10/2019 19:26

It's just a slice of bread, why get so attached to it?

Um...The OP had already eaten it at the point where the 'pal' rudely said she could have shared it so probably a good thing she did remain attached to it.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 16/10/2019 19:26

Some things were never meant by nature to be shared.

Garlic bread is one of them.

You did the right thing.

Sweetpea55 · 16/10/2019 19:28

You should have told her to eff orf..

EmmiJay · 16/10/2019 19:28

I bet you've lost weight visibly and shes just jealous😌

nowayhose · 16/10/2019 19:29

YANBU, she's a CF who can't decide what she wants, then wants what others have got ! She's the greedy bastard ! You only ate what you ordered FGS !

Miltonj · 16/10/2019 19:29

I would absolutely never share garlic bread. YANBU.

Honeyroar · 16/10/2019 19:29

You should have replied "I didn't think you'd really manage some, considering you had chips and coleslaw to pig out on already"

Queenoftheashes · 16/10/2019 19:29

I only share my garlic bread if I am calorie counting or full. Certainly not just because someone was stupid enough to order coleslaw.

BabyofMine · 16/10/2019 19:31

Absolutely nothing “gutsy” about eating a portion of Nando’s garlic bread by yourself (who even says that, I’d want to tell someone to fuck off just for using that word alone!) it’s not even a very big portion tbh!!

SchadenfreudePersonified · 16/10/2019 19:31

Every time we go to Nandos my dd orders garlic bread and it's only when it turns up that I remember how scrummy it is and I then have to ignore her while she eats it and no she doesn't offer me any

What!

For 9 months you carried her . . . . growing inside you . . . .

She could order an extra portion, for you - her MOTHER!!!

(FWIW - my DD wouldn't either Grin)

HuntingCuns · 16/10/2019 19:32

I'm Hmm at anyone suggesting that chips would be a fair exchange for garlic bread. Chips are just chips. Garlic bread is the best food invention ever (never had Nando's, but may have to try now). Your friend should have ordered her own, if she was that keen to have some.

Hodge00079 · 16/10/2019 19:32

Sounds like a petulent child. Very rude.

Next time perhaps she will be sulking because you have not shared your meal with her.

Butterfly84 · 16/10/2019 19:33

FFS OP. Of course you did nothing wrong. She's not entitled to eat the food you ordered for yourself. She's rude and greedy. And also quite weird IMO that she behaved like this. She behaved like a child.

Hodge00079 · 16/10/2019 19:34

Who’s thinking that want Nando’s garlic bread?

Never tried it but want some now.

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