To not want to re-home my dog

[Noselfconfidenceatall]

My DP is terrified of my dog (his breed) he was physically attacked bybone and never got over it . He is a fantastic do, great with the DC, loves my mum's toy breed dog but mine he can't handle it. The hairs stand up on his arms when he even talks about him. He understands the upset it will bring in rehoming , however I don't want to 😭

Dunk yer biscuit where the sun don't shine pet. It was a joke

Tartsamazeballs ah well, with a sense of humour like that I'm sure you and your dog will be very happy together.

Who pissed on your chips today?

Thanls everyone I've managed to keep them.happily separated so far. I really do believe he is genuinely terrified it's really obvious , ive taken all on board and hoping more time and perseverance

Please do not rehome, he doesn’t live with you, why should your dog lose his home because of your Bf.
How long have you been together?
Do not pander to him, what next? Dislikes one of your kids? Move them out?
It’s not his house and if he doesn’t like it tell him not to come over.

He has tried , he makes the dogd dinner for him.every morning (adds tit bits, pilchards, chicken,egg, etc ) and feeds him.by placing thr bowl down through the door , he has also even sat next to him why he has been in his crate , he has honestly tried but he seems to go.one step forwards two steps back , but I'm not backing down just yet

I don't think so TwoPupsandaHamster
It's my house they moved into and it's me who pays the bills. Because I'm not a monster, you know.

@Noselfconfidenceatall
How long have you known him?
Is he hoping to move in?
If he can feed and sit with the dog Im afraid I think he’s being manipulative.
Be firm and tell him the dog stays.

I don't think so TwoPupsandaHamster
It's my house they moved into and it's me who pays the bills. Because I'm not a monster, you know

Wow! 😨 Your DP sounds like a prize catch. At least he has stuck by his dog. Kudos to him for that

I really hope you keep your dog. If he can feed the dog then hes just being manipulative I'm terrified of spiders I couldn't go feed them I'd be shaking and in tears.

@tartsamazeballs that made me properly snort

Tails before males!