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To say that if you can’t take a simple pregnancy test without help, you shouldn’t be considering parenthood.

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TottieandMarchpane · 10/10/2019 06:59

What is it with all the numerous “can you help me with a pregnancy test?” and “line eyes!” threads?

Parenting is much harder than PingOAS and looking for a line. If you can’t manage this, you’ve fallen at the first hurdle.

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Changemynamexchangemyname · 10/10/2019 14:13

AIBU to think that someone who can’t remember what ‘line eyes’ means shouldn’t consider parenthood? You need to remember things when you have kids. Like their names and where you left them and how many Go Jetters there are.

TottieandMarchpane · 10/10/2019 14:13

Can I just randomly mention what a great site Reddit is? Smile

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JacquesHammer · 10/10/2019 14:20

Can I just randomly mention what a great site Reddit is?

Sure.

If I can just randomly mention losing the first half of your username might suit you better.

360eyes · 10/10/2019 14:21

I really don't get your post. You think people who want a second opinion because a line is still faint shouldn't have kids? So you're assuming they are parents worthy of SS intervention because of this?

I think people who write judgemental nonsense shouldn't post threads on internet forums. Each to their own.

anyoneseenmykeys · 10/10/2019 14:33

oh for god's sakes, it's not goady, it's a valid point.

It's posters getting their knickers in a twist who are creating the drama. It's not against the spirit of YABU to post about random thoughts and questions. Some posters really need to grow up....

Judgybitch · 10/10/2019 14:35

I have posted on here with contradictory results before as i wanted anecdotal information not official (self protective) information that you read on the product info or leaflet. google wouldnt help either!

FavaBeansAndANiceChianti · 10/10/2019 14:35

I think the only people who need to grow up are those incapable of realising there could be a many number of reasons, some heartbreaking, behind reasons why these threads appear so often.

Lweji · 10/10/2019 18:45

Can I just randomly mention what a great site Reddit is? smile

Oh, you're one of those. I'm not surprised.

Lweji · 10/10/2019 18:47

oh for god's sakes, it's not goady, it's a valid point.

Please explain its validity.

TottieandMarchpane · 10/10/2019 18:49

Oh, you're one of those. I'm not surprised

What? A person who reads Reddit?

I popped over there at lunchtime for a change of subject. I didn’t get one. I did laugh Grin

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Lweji · 10/10/2019 18:50

It’s aimed at anyone who posts a thread asking if there’s a line on a pregnancy test. Nobody specific.

Just specifically those who post lines on pregnancy tests threads, then. GrinHmm

AWaspOnAWindowReturns · 10/10/2019 18:51

YABU. You don't have to open the threads...

my2bundles · 10/10/2019 18:58

If you don't like the posts scroll past, that's the beauty of posts. I think delibrately trying to upset woman who are already going thro a tough time is tne lowest of the low. They come onto a parenting and pregnancy site for support not judgement. Like I said if you don't like the posts scroll past, no body is making you read them and leave them for posters who actually do care.

TottieandMarchpane · 10/10/2019 18:59

I think delibrately trying to upset woman who are already going thro a tough time is tne lowest of the low

Yes, that would be bad, if it happened.

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