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AIBU?

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To ask class teacher who went in my childs bag?

376 replies

SamAntHaHa · 09/10/2019 14:09

Something has been taken from my childs bag. It is not valuable and I won't get it back because it's a single use item for personal use.
I don't mind it being used by others but it's unsettling for things to be taken and not be informed by staff or my childs friends if one of them decided they wanted to take it. It feels like something being stolen from their bag since someone went in there without permission and took what they wanted when the bag was in the classroom with everyone elses bags.
AIBU to ask staff who went in my childs bag?
And then to ask the person apologise for taking it from my childs bag without mentioning it since it is stealing?

OP posts:
SuzieSunshine · 09/10/2019 21:25

If you read the original Post and the OP's first reply with 'condoms' in mind as the stolen item it makes quite good reading.

Bluntness100 · 09/10/2019 21:27

You're going to set your kid up with a first aid stall?

Confused
highhopess · 09/10/2019 21:41

Op - GET A FUCKING GRIP
Honestly your ‘one of those mums’. Don’t be.
Most trivial idiotic thing I’ve read ever.
Setting your kid up to be so bothered about their bag. It’s a fucking plaster you mug.

LoyaltyBonus · 09/10/2019 21:53

If this was my child, if I eve noticed, I'd assume that they'd used it in some sort of game. Given the reaction that OP seems to have about such things I'd guess is a tiny bit scared to say so.

You seem to have a lot of issues with the school, if you make this one of them, it would would be a human reaction to dismiss your other concerns.(albeit wrong)

FrancisCrawford · 09/10/2019 21:59

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

PrincessMaryaBolkonskaya · 09/10/2019 21:59

Mmmmmmmmm gold bar

VenusTiger · 09/10/2019 22:00

“Where her legs meet” - is this real?

VenusTiger · 09/10/2019 22:02

Omg you do realise your putting your odd ocd behaviour onto your daughter don’t you!

Grafittiqueen · 09/10/2019 22:10

Jesus Christ. You really need to get yourself a life. It probably fell out of the bag.

Hederex · 09/10/2019 22:13

Sweet Lord FFS, OP, this is a complete non issue. Your DD probably lost it but was too afraid of The Bag Police to let on.
Get over it.

LolaSmiles · 09/10/2019 22:15

Please don't home school.
It's a wonderful option for some, but people using as a response to their own quirks is unlikely to be best for the child.

VenusTiger · 09/10/2019 22:16

*you're I meant

EmeraldShamrock · 09/10/2019 22:21

I read some of this thread earlier.
I popped in to see if the mystery item had been revealed. 🤣
Christ on a bike.
A bloody plaster. Thanks for the update it made me laugh. 🤣

ashtrayheart · 09/10/2019 22:21

You realise teachers are very busy yes?

easyandy101 · 09/10/2019 22:21

If this is for real you people are mean

SucksToBeYouHun · 09/10/2019 22:23

Stop drinking on a school night OP

Lunafortheloveogod · 09/10/2019 22:24

So perhaps the tree was feeling edgy after it realised your dd knew it had the keyring.. it took revenge.. bet the fuckers got the plaster too.

You’d get less sarcasm if you’d asked “should I mention a dressing missing from dd’s bag to the teacher” rather than acting like she had NASA launch codes in her pocket.

Mummae21 · 09/10/2019 22:24
  1. Why would the teacher know?
  2. Why was the missing item such a massive secret?
  3. Why did you start this thread?

😂🤣

Mummae21 · 09/10/2019 22:25

Crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣 @Lunafortheloveogod

Migrainefun · 09/10/2019 22:28

You cray cray

Faircastle · 09/10/2019 22:37

I thought this thread had run its course then saw this:
all this fuss and cloaca & dagger

which should win typo of the week.

TriDreigiau · 09/10/2019 22:42

One of those kids was having trouble with asthma and were borrowing their siblings inhalers since theirs had unfortunately gone missing at school. Disorganised perhaps.

Sadly not unusal IME - they put the carefully labled blue inhailors "somewhere safe" - and the child never gets to see them again.

Older children learn to hide one in their bag they can get to it.

I've heard there's better training being directed to schools around epipens for similar reasons.

easyandy101 · 09/10/2019 22:57

which should win typo of the week.

I've read heinz site written without irony

I never assume Grin

TabithasMumCaroline · 10/10/2019 02:27

Thank you for my new username op!

Conkerer · 10/10/2019 02:35

Fuck me!

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