Is sleeping with 4 people in a month a bit much?

[holdtheladdersteady]

Am I just an old prude?

Is sleeping with 4 different people in a month a bit...I don’t know...grim?

I just found this out about someone and it makes me feel a bit sick. AIBU?

@Butchyrestingface

@Wereeaglesdare Had someone else pipped you to the post for the username Whereeaglesdare?

LOL

I am just trying to put myself in @sammylady37 's shoes. This is just my opinion - talking about myself, not you Sammy.
To have sex with one man, then another, then another in five days.

I just couldn't let that many men be that close to me in such a short time. I would feel shy!

That was to wereeagles **

I suppose people do get up to these things and it seems fine in a abstract sort of way.

However, if the guy I was attracted to admitted to 2 one night stands, before and after me and sex with his ex, even if I was not his girlfriend at the time, I would not think live and let live. I would think that this is a dog that is going to be difficult to keep on the porch and I would not trust him to be faithful as a partner.

I could be wrong about him but something of his casual attitude does not make me feel he would be someone who would be decent to me. I do not think he is an inherently decent person who is respectful to women.

Come off, angel, you're not trying to put yourself in other peoples' shoes, you're here to be judgemental, your initial response is the real you, it's not about being shy, it's about judging people whose sexual practices are different from yours.

@timshelthechoice I disagree. I said "who does that" because I had literally had never heard of anyone doing that,ever.

It shocked me

@Butchyrestingface

Yes and it flew me in to a mad rage where i take all of my sexual frustration out on the women getting some while Prudey old me just sits here like some iron maiden loving serial killer waiting for some poor sexually satisfied lady to have a go at.

Once again its my opinion I wouldn't dare tell anyone not to have a one night stand or several I just think get to know people first. Bragging about shagginc loads a men at one time makes me cringe inside so me personally finds it dirty! Do I think women can't have a choice or men. Fucking of course not Shag away.

@timshelthechoice

Agree about @angell84 she has changed her stance from being judgy and snarky and rude and pious to saying 'ooooh, but I am too SHY to have sex with 2 or 3 men in one weekend.'

What rot. Backpedaling! That's what it is.

@angell84

Don't get out much do you?

angell84 you are easily shocked. Some people shag more than one partner at a time too! Shocker!

Yes, there was: Phew! Some of the women on here.

@rainingallday I don't care what you think to be honest. If I am judgemental - I am judgemental.

Arent we all entitled to our opinion?

I know what I mean: I don't think that she is a bad person,
But still i think that it is shocking!!!

And I am allowed to think that

I'm a bit old fashioned and trying to raise my dc correctly and YANBU. It's a bit gross and yeah, just gross

@rainingallday "don't get out much"

Are you judging me now?

Once again its my opinion I wouldn't dare tell anyone not to have a one night stand or several I just think get to know people first. Bragging about shagginc loads a men at one time makes me cringe inside so me personally finds it dirty! Do I think women can't have a choice or men. Fucking of course not Shag away.

Forget all this nonsense, woman. Let's get back to the username. We need to get it sorted.

Nothing wrong with consenting adults blah blah blah? Ok, but also nothing wrong with wanting a man (or woman) who doesn't treat sex as something casual and hop from one partner to the next with hardly a pause.

YANBU, OP.

@rainingallday some women think that other women having sex with multiple men in one week...is shocking

And guess what...we are allowed to have our opinion!!

angell84 out of interest, when you say some women think that other women having sex with multiple men in one week...is shocking, do you also think men having ex with multiple women is shocking? Or is it just women who mustn't be dirty sluts?

@UnoriginalUserName948 I think the same about men.

The word "slut " never passed my lips. It passed yours.

There is a massive difference having sex in a loving relationship to just shagging.

Bit defensive there @angell84

Is it being called out on your backpedalling ? Or just you pouring scorn on women who don't behave like proper laydeeez

You and @Wereeaglesdare should become friends. You'd get on like a house on fire.

like do you think that three men in a week, is a bit much

@rainingallday defensive about what? And where did I backpedal? My stance has been the same all the way through.

I pointed out why I personally think it is shocking, is that I would find it dofficult dor three men to be that close to me - in that short amount of time.

I never backpedalled once

*difficult for

I just think it's sad people came on this post to brag about their amazing sex life.

Those saying they've only slept with one other person and have a great sex life, never been rejected......are also bragging , aren't they? That would be, er, you then.

You're just bragging about different things. Which is nice.