To think she brought it all on herself

[FirstTimeMummyDS88]

Link to previous thread

http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/amiibeingunreasonable/3635012-to-be-over-the-moon-my-dp-has-finally-took-his-balls-out-of-mummy-s-handbag-and-told-her-where-to-go

So I anyone has read my previous threads about my horrendous relationship with my PIL and SIL you will know we have been completely NC for a while now since we found out I'm pregnant with our second baby (we have a 16 month old DS and I'm 17 weeks pregnant with DS2)

Myself and DP got married last Saturday, it was a very small registry office wedding and it was only my family and we had 2 friends each there. DP (oh it's DH now haha) has gone tonight to break the news to his parents. Even after everything I'm sitting here now imagining how i would feel missing my sons wedding and I start to feel bad for her but then I know when DH gets home he will tell me how she said I'm the devil and it's al my fault and how I've stolen her boys again

@TreeCalm

To all the posters who haven’t read the backstory, the MIL is properly batshit and could face jail time for what she has done through work.

Just this really.

It shows how crazy she is to interfere with the OP’s medical appointments.

She accessed confidential medical records for her own benefit. I would have reported her.

@FirstTimeMummyDS88 You've handled it much better than many others would I'm sure. Already your MIL is pushing boundaries about coming to the scan the woman clearly has no impulse control so keep waiting her out she'll fuck up soon enough her types always do. As for this bollocks about not forgiving you over DS growth restrictions and developmental delay is just another excuse to try and manipulate your DH and everyone else around you so she's the "top dog" or Queen bitch as I like to call it. Hopefully this pregnancy won't be so stressful with her out of the picture for now. Good luck

OP, I know you said you didnt send him round etc, but even if you are taking any sliver of joy in his parents being gutted, well, so bloody what imo. It perfectly is human to feel a bit smug/pleased when someone who has behaved appallingly to you gets a bit of bloody karma. Congratulations on your wedding, hope all goes well with the impending birth too.

Forgive me if this has already been said....but have you told anyone dealing with your medical care about the past issues you’ve had with her? Although it’s a different hospital some trusts have access to all notes cross a geographical area so she may still be able to see and find stuff out.
I’d be asking them to ensure any access to any of your medical files is blocked.