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To think threads are a bit different lately?!

150 replies

Treestreestrees · 18/09/2019 09:56

No idea how to put this

Long time user. Love Mumsnet for intelligent, considered, witty discussions. Genuinely has introduced me to new concepts and made me think of things in new lights.

In the last month or so, posters seem....well.....different. Can’t think how to put it without sounding condescending or offensive.

Anyone else noticed this? Am I going mad?

OP posts:
JoxerGoesToStuttgart · 18/09/2019 09:59

It’s been like that for a while now. Can’t see it improving.

RabbityMcRabbit · 18/09/2019 10:32

Not sure what you mean OP. Different how?

dollydaydream114 · 18/09/2019 10:38

Can’t think how to put it without sounding condescending or offensive.

I think that says an awful lot about you.

30to50FeralHogs · 18/09/2019 10:44

It’s gone to the dogs I tell you.

Since it’s become more popular and the type of poster giving advice has changed there certainly isn’t the same no nonsense LTB mentality that we’re used to.

There’s a lot more “oh he’s just a man, he’s trying, bless him” type replies.

SpoonBlender · 18/09/2019 11:02

Since early this year, imho. It's probably the extra stress of Brexit governmental twattery and national insecurity.

NoSauce · 18/09/2019 11:04

It’s been like this for years.

onanothertrain · 18/09/2019 11:14

I agree, used to be you would know how a thread was going to go by reading the OP. Now I often get a couple of posts in and think WTF. Seems a bit less nasty overall although been some right arse hole comments in the last couple of days.

Crunchymum · 18/09/2019 11:18

I am sure I'll get deleted at the very least but it's incredibly low brow now.

And samey

Full of trolls, wannabe fiction writers, fabrication and stories written for classic nominations.

The ads render the site unusable for me on my android.

I am sure someone will ask my why I still bother? The answer is I don't know!

PlinkPlink · 18/09/2019 11:37

I've seen quite a few 'hun's around.

Disturbing.

Didn't someone say that netmums had shut down so alot of them had moved over to here? I haven't checked the veracity of that statement so genuinely no idea.

roisinagusniamh · 18/09/2019 11:42

Always a bad sign when you see'hun' Plink

Treestreestrees · 18/09/2019 11:57

Ohhhhhh the netmums thing would explain a lot!!

OP posts:
gamerchick · 18/09/2019 12:04

Yeah a lot of netmums crew come I think. It's fine, they just need assimilation. Poke at them with a stick until they swear at you.

user1474894224 · 18/09/2019 12:07

Netmums is still going....I get emails from the site. I clicked a link the other day to find it was a duplicate letter from this site. Not just similar but word for word the same. What's that about?

elQuintoConyo · 18/09/2019 12:07

I think a few tines a year posters pop in with 'site's not what it used to be' claims. Penis Beaker has a lot to answer for!

Netmums us still up an running as far as I can see, threads started yesterday etc. Simon cowell on the front page so not the site for me!

managedmis · 18/09/2019 12:08

Ah, yes, me too.

Basically a few posters have lowered the tone, let's say.

Too many huns and xxx sprinkled liberally everywhere

ukgift2016 · 18/09/2019 12:09

Yes I have thought the same!

Definitely due to netmum posters moving over here.

Baguetteaboutit · 18/09/2019 12:10

There's a lot more black and white thinking. More talking at each other than with each other on the busier boards.

TheMustressMhor · 18/09/2019 12:13

Netmums has a lot to answer for.

FaFoutis · 18/09/2019 12:15

There was a 'wanna' in a thread title yesterday. It's not what I come here for.

Baguetteaboutit · 18/09/2019 12:18

There was a 'wanna' in a thread title yesterday.

Did it redeem itself with a zigazig ah?

TheMustressMhor · 18/09/2019 12:22

Netmums is still going

Yes. But it has undergone so many difficulties in the last eight weeks or so that many users have completely given it up. Now it's back online it has changed beyond recognition.

Yaflamingalah · 18/09/2019 12:23

So basically it's gone downhill since common, low class people started infiltrating the boards?

TheQueef · 18/09/2019 12:27

There is an increase in kisses xxx I think some users are just using generic forum speak which never offends.

It's about due for a bun fight over bedding and towel washes.
That'll settle em.

roisinagusniamh · 18/09/2019 12:28

Oh I I read a thread where a poster said she holds her knife like a pencil!

Yadid · 18/09/2019 12:28

Well this thread comes up an a quarterly basis, so nothing has changed as far as I can see.

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