To say this needs sorting ASAP to the preschool staff?

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Ds 3 goes to the school preschool - he will be in their foundation year after summer next year.
Lovely preschool he’s settled fantastically well lovely staff etc. Monday he came home his pants were dirty and his bum super sore from not being wiped properly. I explained to staff he will try and wipe it himself but he can’t do it properly could they check him and I’ve sent in some wet wipes for him.
Today hes again in dirty pants, he had a poo after the register this morning he said so he’s been like that all day! Poo on the back of his top and again he’s really sore.
Aibu to think most 3 year old would need helping out with this and to say to the preschool it needs to sorting?!

Mine went to school nursery and often came back with skid marks when they started (they were 3) I thought the teacher wasn't allowed to help.

I don’t need anything! I’m not a teacher

So your confident assertions on what is and isn’t part of a teacher’s remit and where children should be developmentally is based on not much of anything.

Major accidents or multiple- yep parents would be called. I’m not making this up you know it really is what has happened at every single non private setting I have ever been in fortunately I have not seen this happen in any of the early years settings I know.

Oh stop being pathetic jellycat. I am entitled to my opinion based on my experiences as a mother, as a mother of children who have attended pre school and private day nursery, as someone who reads a variety of different newspapers not just the guardian.

Eh? What's the Guardian got to do with it?!

I think it must be that the guardian is the main read (probably for political reasons) but every now and then other newspapers are read too. Sensible. Surprising but sensible.

I am entitled to my opinion based on my experiences as a mother

Of course you are, but detailing what is and isn’t within a teacher’s contract goes beyond offering an opinion to suggesting you know something about the profession. I’ll treat the Guardian comment with the contempt it deserves.

And I shall treat you the same .