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to dislike Extinction Rebellion

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Azeema · 26/08/2019 16:07

I live in farming village. We are getting in harvest.
But today on village green extinction rebellion has decided to have a party with drums, loud music and a megaphone. Green is right opposite care home for elderly.
I asked them, who are you protesting? There are no corporations here. Everyone is aware of environment as we grow your food.
They have been very rude, refusing to turn down noise despite disabled residents with migraines suffering.
They made me very upset talking about how England could grow own food and have lower footprint if not so many people (I’m an immigrant) looking at me like I should leave country.

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Morningbird1 · 28/08/2019 05:30

We completely get that most people are too busy trying to earn a living to be able to take time off for this kind of action. And glueing yourself to a building may seem childish to you but the point of these actions is to disrupt, in a non violent fashion. And for the record, I’ve spoken to one person who was arrested for this kind of action who spends the day working in care, earning a very modest wage. She took holiday to do that action. And these tactics are making a difference. Thousands of people joined XR after the big London rebellion this year and the movement is growing all the time, across the world.

Next time we go to London our aim will be more targeted, to disrupt the seats of power until they take meaningful action. Honestly we are facing the equivalent of an army sailing to our shores to destroy our way of life, and the idea that our government is still treating life as normal is almost beyond belief. We don’t aim to be popular, you don’t aim to be popular when you’re shrieking at people to get out of a house because it’s on fire, and that’s the kind of situation we’re in. We’ll just keep shrieking until people wake up and start to act.

The main thing that propels me to act is thinking about what life is going to be like for my children. It’s become a cliche now, but I want to be able to look them in the eye and know that I did everything I could to try and make things better, before it was too late.

MustardScreams · 28/08/2019 07:23

@squeekums it’s the ‘I’m alright jack’ attitude like your that get us into the mess in the first place. People only looking in their immediate vicinity and not being open-minded enough to see the bigger picture.

You know the Extinction Rebellion are doing for you? And everyone else on this planet? They want your government to acknowledge that we cannot go on like this without causing devastating destruction to the planet you live on. And because of their demonstrations they are starting to. Councils are declaring a climate emergency, which is huge. They’re starting to listen.

You can continue to bury your head in the sand as much as you want, but it’s happening, and it’s going to affect your children in their lifetime. If that doesn’t make you want to do something then I don’t know what will.

donquixotedelamancha · 28/08/2019 08:04

The people making excuses for the racist bullying of OP, or claiming she is lying, should be ashamed. YANBU OP.

Leighhalfpennysthigh · 28/08/2019 08:37

The posts from supporters and members of this silly cult on here just reinforce my view of them as middle class meddlers with nothing better to do.
And I'm middle class.
I also believe in climate change, though my views are more in line with @DoomsdayCult that it is a natural cycle.
I'm happy to governments to put in place legislation to help this, but I'm not prepared to be lectured to about making massive changes to my life that I do not want to do and can't do.
I have no children. I'm mostly vegetarian. I rarely fly.
I'm shit at recycling. I don't have time or energy to protest so happy to let my elected government do what we elected them to do (for the sake of this argument let's forget they are a bunch of Tory wankers).
I need to drive a lot as it's core to my business. That ain't ever going to change, but I'm happy to buy an electric car or hybrid. I have two dogs. They eat quality meat and dry food.

There are millions of people like me who do these little things. We don't need to be screamed at, called childish by people who glue themselves to a road ffs, or told we don't care because we aren't going to ditch our cars, ruin our livelihoods or suddenly find the hundreds of pounds needed to buy "ethical" clothes out of hemp.

malificent7 · 28/08/2019 08:38

I can't take time off to protest BUT i'm bloody glad someone can do it on my behalf.

MustardScreams · 28/08/2019 08:51

It’s not a natural cycle of the planet that is causing this, and if you continue to believe that then that is your prerogative. But you’re wrong.

Greenhouse gases (the cause of climate change) are well above why they were in the last climate cycle. That is manmade. If it was a natural cycle then the stratosphere (the highest part of the atmosphere) would be heating up in line with the rest of the atmosphere. But it is in fact cooling whilst the atmosphere just above the planet is heating. That is greenhouse gases in effect.

You don’t need to buy ethical clothing made out of hemp 😂 Just use charity shops more, learn to sew. Don’t use plastic as much as you can, don’t be too lazy to put recycling in the recycling. I mean, that is literally the easier thing anyone can do. To not be bothered to do that says a lot about you. Middle class or not,

But the biggest thing that anyone can do is put huge pressure on big companies and other countries to get in line and actually give a shit. Hence the protests.

Leighhalfpennysthigh · 28/08/2019 09:11

really? Stop fucking patronising and lecturing.

MustardScreams · 28/08/2019 09:18

It’s not patronising or lecturing to try and explain to people why supporting movements like XR is important.

I see by the excellent and well-rounded comeback it is pointless to try and get you to actually do any research about it though (that was patronising).

Jillyhilly · 28/08/2019 09:29

OP I’m sorry you’ve had such an awful experience with XP. I work in London and have found them incredibly disruptive and annoying. Their tactics are awful, and it’s not even clear what they’re asking for. “Somebody must do something” seems to be the message, but I think I’m right in saying the UK is responsible for something tiny, like 1% of the world’s emissions. China is responsible for about 30%! And I don’t begrudge them that because their “industrial revolution” is lifting millions of them out of poverty. But apparently XR don’t approve of that.

@DoomsdayCult Your posts (and patience!) on this subject are really interesting and informed, thank you, and you put into very articulate words something I’ve been thinking for a long time in terms of the rise of a new anti-human doomsday cult. There is a sense of mass hysteria, almost a religious intolerance around the modern environmental movement. People who question the science in any way are called “deniers” (a term that has been applied in religion too). You must believe everything you are told, or you will excommunicated! They even have their own Messiah now, Greta Thunberg, who will deliver sermons from on high, entreat people to follow her and suffer for all our sins. I sometimes wonder if the decline of religion hasn’t in some way been responsible for the rise of this movement. It gives people some very definite rules and a doctrine to adhere to unquestioningly, provides structure, meaning and purpose and there are very punishments for those who don’t toe the line. Ultimately I think humans like that kind of thing.

I too am optimistic about where we are going. Human beings are incredibly resourceful and technological changes will continue to improve all our lives. All this talk about how awful fossil fuels are seems nonsensical to me because without them most of us wouldn’t be here and those that were would be living the kind of shitty awful lives most people lived in the past - every day a grim, gruelling battle with nature just to survive. Our modern lives are incredibly luxurious and we owe that on large part to our incredible ability to produce cheap, efficient energy. We need more sustainable technology to be sure, but that is happening and will continue to happen.

I certainly don’t worry about global warming for the reasons you so eloquently state. We have problems but I am convinced that the answer will come through commerce. Governments don’t always have the solution and quite often they get it wrong - see the recommendation for us to drive diesel!

CatherineOfAragonsPrayerBook · 28/08/2019 09:51

it’s the ‘I’m alright jack’ attitude like your that get us into the mess in the first place. People only looking in their immediate vicinity and not being open-minded enough to see the bigger picture.

I don't think you get it. Squeekums doesn't have an "I'm alright Jack" attitude because....she's not "alright" . She's working hard for the necessities of life, which in the west include non-negotiables like Rent, Council Tax, Heating, Food, etc. You clearly have no understanding of what it feels like to be genuinely WC or Working poor.

I've been in situations where just making make £50 quid less a month is something that affects me. Some hipster MC people (who aren't risking their own livelihoods, so they're not exactly on the same level as the suffragettes or people during the civil rights movement, but no you're risking mine and others livelihoods) glueing themselves to the road hurts me and my children. It's not just about being pissed off its about someone infinitely better off than me making me spend £10 or more quid extra a day to get to work.

There are many people who feel that. And by the way these people are likely the ones with the smallest carbon footprint. They can't afford to have 20 pairs of shoes, or even go on holiday and fly, or have a car, etc etc. Yet they are the ones XR are affecting the most.

I've spoken to one person who was arrested for this kind of action who spends the day working in care, earning a very modest wage. She took holiday to do that action

So she risked nothing. She didn't take unscheduled time off and risk her job or her modest pay packet did she? But she was alright risking mine and others and has doubtless has given herself a slap on the back for being trendy and cool enough to be arrested.

I'd love to know who backs XR and what the motivations are of any silent funders and where the leaders of it have come from. Because judging by the comments, clearly I see the poor or just average joes are not important to any aims they have. Neither will any concessions ever be enough. It isn't for any of these movements.

Essentially whatever concessions you make will serve to make the poor poorer and the Elite even more privileged.

Morningbird1 · 28/08/2019 09:52

The central message from XR is not one of preaching to people about flying, eating meat etc. It’s to the governments to tell the truth and let us, the people be part of the process that decides how we’re going to tackle it.

And yes it’s possible that some humans will survive what’s to come. It’s very doubtful however because at the current rate of global warming we are set for a rise in global temperature of about 6 degrees. This will make the world too hot for human habitation in most places.

And I’m not part of a Domesday cult; I’m clinging to the hope that we’ve still got time to turn this around! And to those who say we are offering no solutions it’s simply not true. We are advocating a paradigm shift to a circular economy, one where continued growth is not driving us all to extinction. The fashion industry is one which is starting to change. Moves were already being made before XR came along but XR’s targeting of fast fashion has injected a real sense of urgency and things are visibly changing. Ultimately the system XR is advocating is one which will make the whole world a lot more equal, and one which cherishes the earth, rather than exploiting it for the profit of a tiny few.

Leighhalfpennysthigh · 28/08/2019 09:58

I see by the excellent and well-rounded comeback it is pointless to try and get you to actually do any research about it though (that was patronising).

Oh, I have. I am actually a trained researcher. And not just googling either.

See, I can be patronising too.

MustardScreams · 28/08/2019 10:00

@CatherineOfAragonsPrayerBook I’m a single mother with huge nursery bills, mortgage and everything else to pay for. Of course I understand what losing money feels like. Dd and I would lose our home.

But climate change will mean we ALL lose our home. It is important. And unfortunately to get the current government to sit up and actually take heed there has to be protests that will affect others. Marching outside No10 will do fuck all, because they can close the door and their eyes.

Jillyhilly · 28/08/2019 10:21

And yes it’s possible that some humans will survive what’s to come. It’s very doubtful however because at the current rate of global warming we are set for a rise in global temperature of about 6 degrees. This will make the world too hot for human habitation in most places.

But morningbird I don’t doubt that you are genuinely worried and doing what you think is best. But the problem with this kind of rhetoric is that a) for disinterested people it just sounds barmy so they roll their eyes and switch off and b) anyone who’s done even the briefest bit of reading around the subject in an attempt to get a balanced perspective will know that this is disingenuous because it’s the absolute worse case scenario, based on dodgy modelling, and that there are many many other possibilities!

You will never sway the majority with this kind of rhetoric. It’s all the same religious / cultish stuff (the government must tell us “the truth” because we alone are the holders of that truth.... repent and atone by giving up your cars and wrapped goods from Waitrose ... or burn in the (globally warmed) pits of hell. And it puts people off.

Tolomeo · 28/08/2019 10:29

I would like to know what the supporters of XR do themselves to lessen their environmental damage to the planet. Its mainly urban based people who know nothing about farming and plant production. I lead a very environmentally kind life, and I would really love to see car use restricted as it would suit me personally (super fit cyclist), I work nearly all online, I litter pick along my local grass verges, I keep items for a long time and cherish them, and so on. I only rarely eat meat. I rescue animals. And so on. But I would never start telling other people how to lead their lives, or join a "movement", based on some woolly premises and lambasting people who are quite possibly also much more environmentally friendly than themselves.

Jillyhilly you put into very articulate words something I’ve been thinking for a long time in terms of the rise of a new anti-human doomsday cult.

There are some very gullible people around, people who are easily led, who have no idea how crazy they sound. Europe is doing very nicely on taking measures, which are expensive for all of us, on improving the environment. What we really need to do in Britain is to do existing things better, such as encouraging people out of cars by providing viable alternatives and punitively punishing littering (you can see I've spent too much time picking up other people's donut containers, beer cans and McDonalds boxes). And we need to stop throwing up new build housing estates in the countryside.

Jilly It gives people some very definite rules and a doctrine to adhere to unquestioningly, provides structure, meaning and purpose and there are very punishments for those who don’t toe the line. Ultimately I think humans like that kind of thing.

We should never forget Hitler, David Koresh, etc who were very successful in getting plenty of people to follow them.

CatherineOfAragon you were very gracious to me and I was very rude to me, but I was really disturbed by your portrayal of nuclear contamination as a good thing. To me, that's only a few steps away from some fanatic getting hold of a nuclear weapon and using it to obliterate a sizable sector of the human population, and justifying it by saying its good for the planet ultimately to have less people.

Morningbird1 And yes it’s possible that some humans will survive what’s to come. It’s very doubtful however

MustardScreams But climate change will mean we ALL lose our home.

1300Cakes If one person not getting to hospital on time upsets you, how do you feel about no one ever getting to go to hospital ever again. The old people will have a lot more to worry about than headaches, like starvation.

Now, this is where it gets really silly. We are not all going to die in 11 years exactly. The planet will struggle on. Damage is being done but earth is remarkably resilient. All records indicate that we are actually in a cold phase. No XR supporters have ever given me a logical explanation for the flourishing Norse farming settlements in Greenland 800 years ago that thrived on ancient farming techniques in land which is only marginal now. A cooling climate put paid to them. Human history was based on it being warmer than it is now, as we did not have the techniques to farm and to survive in what are now marginal climates.

We need to tackle plastic and despoliation of the countryside. We don't need people living in cities telling us how to farm when they are mostly ignorant of what widescale arable farming involves, of different soil types, yield and what you need to do to make a country like Britain which has a high proportion of upland produce enough wheat. We really need to stop building new housing estates in the countryside of materials that will last 120 years at best. And so on.

But none of that involves joining a bunch of new friends and thinking yourself newly important, when you don't have enough going on in your life otherwise.

Jillyhilly · 28/08/2019 10:30

unfortunately to get the current government to sit up and actually take heed

But what would you actually like the current government to DO, MustardScreams? Genuinely curious.

Tolomeo · 28/08/2019 10:35

Or if I could use another analogy, its the same type of person who advocates that hard working higher rate taxpayers should pay more tax, because they're rich. While barely paying any tax themselves due to their lifestyle choices. But having too much time on their hands to spend telling other people what to do.

When in fact the best thing they could do is to pay more tax themselves, by working full time or in a more stressful job. But of course there are always reasons why they can't do that, and I'm sure there are reasons that XR supporters drive to their events or live in a new build housing estate in a detached house with 4 bedrooms and 2 en suites, squeezed onto what was previously a meadow.

CatherineOfAragonsPrayerBook · 28/08/2019 10:39

I’m a single mother with huge nursery bills, mortgage and everything else to pay for. Of course I understand what losing money feels like. Dd and I would lose our home.

There are single mothers considerably worse of with no assets, but that's not your fault.

I'm sure you do know what losing money is like. But you don't know what its like for me. Plus again, you weren't at risk of losing your mortgage because you weren't actually there being prevented from getting to work. I see a very casual attitude about how losing a days work or increased travel costs really affects vulnerable people here.

Telling someone with cancer who is worried sick it might spread at any minute that "sorry....but you know, we are preventing you getting your treatment because you just don't understand what's at stake" is both patronising and frankly cruel.

Telling someone who is worried that they will miss another Rent payment and is already being hassled by their landlord, hasn't had a holiday in years, and hasn't any other means of transport that "sorry....we are preventing you from getting to work because don't you know the environment is at risk, and we're all going to lose our homes" (whilst on holiday from their decent paying job which they are going back to, and losing their homes would still likely result in money in their pocket because they own it) is sooo wrong I really don't know where to start.

Jillyhilly · 28/08/2019 10:50

I see a very casual attitude about how losing a days work or increased travel costs really affects vulnerable people here.

Yes, it is a very privileged attitude and quite horrible.

You need a certain amount of consistent financial stability - and a massive lack of empathy - to think that forcing someone else to forgo a day’s pay or incur extra costs in the name of your particular ideology is ok. It absolutely isn’t.

CatherineOfAragonsPrayerBook · 28/08/2019 11:03

Tolomeo

I take your point. Sometimes on a thread I play with an idea, play devils advocate etc. Technically it is true that wildlife has thrived in the exclusion zone (yes they are still affected, but they have also grown in diversity and numbers), I was trying to make a point that nature continues to adapt through adverse environmental conditions. Trust me, I actually cannot stand people who say things like the planet would be better off without us etc and in no way do I think nuclear contamination is a good thing, ever!!

I will say people who are already prepared to justify stopping people getting life saving treatment and earning money to survive for the supposed 'greater good' scare me though. Because the road to hell is paved with good intentions. You ask any dictator responsible for millions of deaths whether they think what they did was wrong and they'll tell you that they did it "for the greater good" They believe it necessary. They do wrong to do right. They all have a vision.

I hear this same 'greater good' rhetoric here. Where does it stop?

MustardScreams · 28/08/2019 11:05

Have we got any actual evidence of people dying from cancer or losing their homes because of the protests? Or are we just plucking imaginary scenarios out of thin air to whip up emotional backlash against a movement?

QualCheckBot · 28/08/2019 11:27

MustardScreams Have we got any actual evidence of people dying from cancer or losing their homes because of the protests? Or are we just plucking imaginary scenarios out of thin air to whip up emotional backlash against a movement?

Have you got an empathy bypass? How long do you think it takes to die of cancer? Or to lose a home? And how do you suppose any relatives of those who die or people searching for a new home reach the journalistic ambit of XR supporters?

MustardScreams · 28/08/2019 11:42

@QualCheckBot well considering I’m undergoing treatment for breast cancer as we speak, a bloody long time I hope!

It’s not that I don’t empathise with the difficulties the protests created. But people can throw any old statement out with absolutely no backing or sources and then it just becomes an emotional tirade instead of a reasoned and factual argument.

ArtichokeAardvark · 28/08/2019 11:44

Hate them. Bunch of hypocritical bastards.

I work near Waterloo Bridge and cross it every day. When they blocked the bridge for a week they spray painted graffiti all over it with oh-so-eco-friendly aerosols and left it a complete tip when they eventually packed up. For people who claim to be all about the environment they really don't seem to live their own message, there were piles of litter and plastic bottles all over the bridge.

Totally stupid anyway to block public transport routes as I ended up getting an Uber to work every day instead, far worse for the environment.

Jillyhilly · 28/08/2019 11:46

MustardScreams I couldn’t get to work earlier in April due to the XR protest. Luckily I am on a permanent contract and my company did not dock my pay. Other people on zero hours Contracts would not have been paid if they couldn’t get to work. I remember a couple of them calling LBC that day. That sort of one day financial setback could have had a massive impact on a struggling family. You seem to be implying that that scenario didn’t, or couldn’t, happen, and that people are making it up. It sounds as if you’ve never been a couple of hundred quid away from making rent. It can and does happen and the resulting anxiety and stress is horrendous.

I would still like to know what exactly you’d like the government to do, once they’ve “sat up and taken heed”.