Insulting birthday card from husband AIBU?

[Amibeingsensitive]

Birthday card on front says

Birthday girl
Become instantly younger with the Eternal Youth rejuvenating lifestyle!
The secrets in the formula...no diet...no exercise...just lie about your age!

I'm 31 and a size 12 with a mum tum after 2 kids. I don't diet or exercise I was a size 8-10 when I met him.

He's not one to give a jokey card it's usually just sweet cards. He said he didn't realise its offensive he just liked the design and didn't pick it for the words.

Am I being sensitive and unreasonable? Is he giving me a dig that I am getting old and need to lose weight or mybe he's just an idiot?

It's deffo knocked my confidence a bit I know it's only a birthday card but surely he's not that stupid and he'd know it'd offend me

I think you're overreacting tbh

I really don't think it's offensive. And I didn't read it as aimed at your physique either. It's just a shit joke card, the kind of which get more prevalent as you proceed through your thirties.

I think you are massively over-thinking.

He’s probably not read it properly, just a bit of a knob eh?
Honestly unless he says negative things about your weight etc ignore it and happy birthday!

Its not really offensive is it????
Its a play on the i'm 21 joke.
If hed brought you a your 21 card again woud you be offended

I think I’d just take that as a daft joke, but - don’t know your history so I’ll probably be completely wrong.

I definitely wouldn’t get worked up about that, I think you’re being over-sensitive.

I think you are reading too much into
It. And you probBly read more of the card than he did.

But... why are you not exercising?! Set a better example of a healthy life to your children.

What?! You’re 31 and a size 12 - neither fat nor old.

It’s not especially funny but it’s not offensive.

Good God...

Overreaction

Honestly OP you’re overreacting massively. For our last anniversary my DP got me a “sorry you’re leaving” card.

Agree with PPs, the card is a bit daft but not insulting, try to just ignore it OP, not worth getting in a flap about

Are you a bit sensitive generally about your weight change?
Because this really isnt about your weight its not a dig at all

It's implying women simply lie about their age instead of trying to turn back the clock. It's a shitty joke about getting older. It is not an insult calling you fat.

Massive over-reaction.

YABU the poor guy...

I think surely the joke is that you obviously don’t look old or fat?? Because you’re only 31 and a size 12. It’s ironic, isn’t it?

Wow massive over reaction. It's really not insulting or offensive. You're reading things into it that aren't there

YABU. There’s nothing even remotely insulting about it. It’s just a naff joke about the way most of us want to stay young, not a comment on your appearance. He clearly meant absolutely nothing by it. Give him a break.

You’re being ridiculous.

I really wouldn't be upset by this

I wouldn't be bothered by that, I think you're being over sensitive 🙄

The words are saying that you don’t need any of that fancy stuff, you only need to say your x age because you don’t look old why the hell are you upset?

YABU
My DB sent a Mother’s Day card to our mum. It read ‘ You’re just like a mother to me’. She hasn’t forgiven him yet 😂
Give him a break op.

Bloody hell. This isn’t a problem you need to make. But you are. It’s a card. The problem is with you and your self esteem if you find this offensive.