Would you tell the mother?

[Greggers2017]

My dd is approaching 12 and about to start secondary school. 2 days ago I saw a message on her locked phone screen from one of her friends saying she was going to meet somebody.
When I questioned my daughter she informed me that her friend was going to meet up with a boy she had been talking too online. The friend has never met him before. I spoke to my daughter and explained it is a very dangerous thing to do and that I will inform the friends Mum if she does go to meet him.
Daughter spoke to her friend later that day and informed me that friend had changed her mind.
Fast forward to Just now, another friend has told my dd that first friend is going to meet the boy tomorrow. Do I got and inform the mother even though I don't know her? I would want someone to come tell me.

Absolutely - she needs to know.

Yes I probably would. My DD know I am an interfering old bag but to be fair they know it is from a good place of concern

Yes!
If something happened to this child, could you live with yourself?
Would you want someone to tell you?
Absolutely tell her.

Yes tell her. As the mother of an 11 year old I would want to know.

Please tell her. Nobody knows how old this “boy” is.

Pretty sure any parent would want to be made aware that there child was going off to meet a stranger. Tell her OP.

Definitely, I would want to know. It could be anyone if they met online

Obviously you tell her. Nothing to even think about.

I would definitely tell her. If my child was planning this I would want to know. I also couldn’t live with myself if something happened and I knew about her plans.

Yes, way too young.

Without a shadow of guilt. Best of luck OP

God yes I would.

Imagine if something happened and you could have stopped it.

My daughter says it is a 12 year old boy and they met on an online game and have spoken on FaceTime but something doesn't ring true.
My daughter is ok with me telling the Mum by the way.
How would you do it? Just go and knock on the door? X

Yes go and knock!

I’d like to know.

Definitely tell her. The fact that your daughter has told you her friend is meeting this boy rather than covering for her shows that she is worried too..

Mom definitely needs to know

YANBU OP

Yes, if you are friendly with her and know where she lives knock . If you have a mobile number ring . Its up to you but please do intervene.

Please tell her ASAP. Yes go and knock the door or call her - anything.

Absolutely! If you don't want to do it on person maybe the mother has a social media account you could contact her on?

Just tell her. Definitely.

Yes, I'd knock on the door, easier to explain your concerns and how they came about face to face.

Adults do hang around online spaces where children are likely to congregate and pretend to be the same age so your concern is realistic. It seems likely the girl has been told to keep it secret from her mum.

You need to tell her

Of course you need to tell her

Please go and tell her

Yes of course straight away.