Apologies as you've probably already answered this but would you allow your child to refuse something that you knew would save their life?
That is an incredibly difficult question for me to answer. I love my child and I would cheerfully hold them down to administer anything I thought would save their life. The question is, should the law allow this? Once my child has achieved reason and is competent to say they don’t want a treatment, it stops being my call.
Similarly, if we lived in a Lord of the Flies society and I could do anything within my physical power, there is no telling what I would do to save my child’s life. I don’t expect any parent on MN to feel they would do less.
But what is the law meant to do?
I feel the law is meant to protect my child from attempts to force her to accept substances into her body that either she, as a rational human being, doesn’t want (even if I want her to have them) or that I, as the loving parent of a child who is too young to understand, don’t want her to have.
I accept that a court can step in and declare me unfit to parent, in extreme circumstances.