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AIBU to hate this singing 'style'?

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Albatross454 · 16/08/2019 17:01

Hello everybody. My dd, who is fifteen, loves music. She listens to a lot of pop singers, like Ariana Grande, Billie Ellish etc. She often listens to a lot of song 'covers' on youtube, which is where teens sing their favourite songs in their own style. I personally think it's sweet, but a lot of these teens use this strange style where they mispronounce the words! soit af loik thess. It really makes me angry for some reason. I seem to have an irrational hate of it. One singer that she listens to is called Jessie Reyez. Bloody hell! She's a talented girl but there really is no reason to sing like that... She sounds like she's screeching the words while mispronouncing everything.. Confused Is it just me who gets annoyed by this?

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walkintheparc · 16/08/2019 17:05

It's called the 'indie girl' style - lot of vocal fry.
Agree, it's horrible.

BogglesGoggles · 16/08/2019 17:07

Are you sure they don’t just have an accent?

Albatross454 · 16/08/2019 17:07

@Walkintheparc So it's an actual style? I didn't know it had a name Shock I don't understand the appeal.

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Albatross454 · 16/08/2019 17:07

@bogglesgoggles if you listen to the music it sounds very forced.

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walkintheparc · 16/08/2019 17:09

Well, it's parodied a lot by the 'Vocal Coach' Youtubers and I guess that's just what they've labelled it.

SexFarmWoman · 16/08/2019 17:10

Parent in Not Liking Teenagers Music Shock Shock

That’s new.

Albatross454 · 16/08/2019 17:10

@walkintheparc you mean those 'vocal coach reacts' videos? dd showed me one! There's one called Tristan that she watches. I find him quite funny Grin

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TheFrenchLieutenantsMonkey · 16/08/2019 17:11

Just googled that example. The urge to scream and shout "speak properly girl!!!" was very strong.

Albatross454 · 16/08/2019 17:11

@thefrenchlietenantsmonkey Me too! Wink

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ShirleyPhallus · 16/08/2019 17:15

These breathy, whispery, folksie acoustic versions of previously pretty good rock songs drive me crackers

Scott Mills did a whole section on it a while ago

BendydickCuminsnatch · 16/08/2019 17:18

I DESPISE this. Didn’t t start with that Diana Vickers on X Factor? Hardly indie! Most of them don’t even talk in that accent so it’s all completely contrived. I do equally get annoyed at people doing runs all over the place too who can’t sing a straight note. It’s unlistenable!

cookiechomper · 16/08/2019 17:18

I know exactly the style you mean. It irritates me too as it doesn't sound real, sounds like they are all copying each other.

LemonScentedStickyBat · 16/08/2019 17:18

It’s the way so many female singers sound like they are lying down, wearing a nose clip and barely opening their mouths that I hate. Just sing properly.

cleofatra · 16/08/2019 17:18

It feels like it would actually hurt. Throat tight singing,

EL2019 · 16/08/2019 17:20

Do not look up Miranda Sings on YouTube.

I repeat do not look up Miranda Sings on YouTube.

DD and friend have been talking loike heerr oilllll weeeeek.

BendydickCuminsnatch · 16/08/2019 17:20

I mean. Do the same thing right now, but talking not singing. Isn’t it preposterous?!?!

Albatross454 · 16/08/2019 17:20

@cleofatra I thought that too Grin

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Albatross454 · 16/08/2019 17:21

@el2019 Oh my god! I can't stand her Hmm

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Albatross454 · 16/08/2019 17:22

Her voice is so nasal! Even if it's a joke she annoys me. Grin

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EL2019 · 16/08/2019 17:22

albatross454

The voice.
The lipstick.

At least DD isn’t copying the lipstick along with the voice.

Lowlandlucky · 16/08/2019 17:23

Just watched Jessie Reyez on youtube, oh my she needs to shut the hell up

Duchessgummybuns · 16/08/2019 17:24

Like this?

AIBU to hate this singing 'style'?
Albatross454 · 16/08/2019 17:25

@EL2019 What annoys me though is that she seems lovely when she isn't doing this silly character Grin I much prefer her like that. Her vlogs with the baby are very sweet.

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Albatross454 · 16/08/2019 17:25

@duchessgummybuns That made me laugh!

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BendydickCuminsnatch · 16/08/2019 17:27

Duchess that is so accurate 😄