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To say No to holiday request

157 replies

mumto3boysHE · 13/07/2019 20:13

I run a small family business and have recently expanded enough to take on another member of staff. I could do with some advice please.

This new employee has just finished her 3 months probation. She's doing fine and I can see potential so am generally happy with her so far.

Her holidays are pro rata'd for this year and she has taken all of them already apart from 3 days booked for Christmas which is the same for everyone as we tend to shut down that week.

Now is the start of our busy season, the next 3 months can be a bit manic. In the past we've agreed holidays out of this season and our former employee had always been fine with taking holidays earlier or later in the year.

This year, because we have more staff, I agreed holidays during this period on the basis of only one off at a time and I've had to decline the odd day here and there for this employee because someone else was already off.

She's had 3 days off this week (holiday) and has just messaged me to ask for 2 weeks off unpaid at the end of July.

I get the UNPAID bit, but I have my part timer off at the same time so 2 days a week I'll be 2 people down.

AIBU to say no? And can you help me with some better wording please, rather than just saying absolutely not!

OP posts:
PonderingPanda · 25/08/2019 12:24

@mumto3boysHE sounds like you've had a lucky escape from her as she seems very flaky

Mermaid70 · 25/08/2019 12:26

Since have, thanks for your concern :) @ponderingpanda

HermioneWeasley · 25/08/2019 12:41

You’ve dodged a bullet, what a nightmare employee

Anniegetyourgun · 25/08/2019 13:11

Did she really think you were going to say "oh yeah, sure, we've even kept your old seat free for you" or...?!

SillyMoomin · 25/08/2019 13:17

I would reply, just to be professional.

Just state that you are not looking for staff and wish her well with her future endeavours

Then put down the phone / close the email and pour yourself a glass of wine at her sheer CFuckery!

Densol999 · 25/08/2019 13:27

Ha ha what a CF !!
Lucky escape you had there Grin

minibroncs · 25/08/2019 13:40

Just had a message from her stating she will be available for full time work from the end of September!

I get that people relatively new to the world of employment can be a bit clueless, but this clueless?!

I wonder what her thought process is.

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