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To think that you should never marry a gamer

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Somersetlady · 12/07/2019 15:54

A glut of threads on here recently reference DH being useless/not contributing/ not looking after kids because they are in the xbox. Often they stay up late on the xbox.

One but of advice for those dating would seem to be to steer clear of gamers as your future OH!

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TrendyNorthLondonTeen · 18/07/2019 16:52

Also let's not forget that the game in OPs link has never actually been officially released because no publisher will touch it. Even Steam, a platform that releases any old shite, shut it down quite quickly.

Spudlet · 18/07/2019 16:57

All games are like that revolting one in the same way that all riders do things like this:
m.youtube.com/watch?v=yDygeHVZ6qw

Or this:
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spindles_Farm

Or this:
www.worldhorsewelfare.org/Article/Foal-Found-with-Headcollar-Dug-into-his-Flesh-is-now-Flourishing-with-Rehomer

I used to work in equine welfare - believe me, I could go on. Those aren’t the worst things I’ve seen. Not even close. I got to thinking that there were more abusers - whether deliberately so or through ignorance or neglect - than decent people, frankly.

But of course we’d never think it fair to judge all riders or horse owners like that... would we?

Ragwort · 18/07/2019 17:03

I would just find it hard to relate to a ‘gamer’, my teenage DS went through a stage of having a PlayStation (thankfully now over it) & I just couldn’t understand the attraction of whatever it was he was doing, & I’ve never played Candy Crush or anything like that.

I have many hobbies & interests, as does my DH, & no doubt lots of people can’t relate to how we spend our spare time. My DH has just gone out to play golf, doesn’t bother me in the slightest, he’s in the fresh air, meeting friends, getting a little exercise ... but many wives seem to hate their DHs playing golf Confused.

Somersetlady · 18/07/2019 17:08

I’m obviously not saying all gamers play this type of game. I was hoping it was a troll and made up to antagonise.

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Gooigi · 18/07/2019 17:16

So why post it? How does it prove your point?

EmeraldShamrock · 18/07/2019 18:15

It is silly to advise people not to marry a gamer when you have not had the experience of being married to a gamer yourself.
I'd understand if you had a bad experience being married to one.

Somersetlady · 18/07/2019 18:19

@Gooigi if you read above i posted it because i came across it when looking for links at another posters request and was horrified.

I wanted to be told it wasn't true.

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JacquesHammer · 18/07/2019 18:21

I wanted to be told it wasn't true

Oh come on at least own it. You wanted to use it as method of proving how right you are.

Gooigi · 18/07/2019 18:35

[[https://lmgtfy.com/?q=rape+day+game&s=g]

A two second Google search would tell you it is. Not that it has a damn thing to do with the thread. You're just being goady.

Gooigi · 18/07/2019 18:36

lmgtfy.com/?q=rape+day+game&s=g

Magentabubble · 19/07/2019 17:56

How anyone can play BoTW and not see that it's a work of art is beyond me.

Gooigi · 19/07/2019 18:42

www.wired.com/2008/01/queen-elizabeth/

Somebody warn Prince Phillip.

Fibbke · 19/07/2019 19:27

Im desperate to play BoTW Sad

TeaForTheWin · 20/07/2019 11:58

I thought botw was good but then I played red dead redemption 2. Scenery and graphics blow botw out of the water. And the horses are miles better too. Always been a Nintendo girl...think xbox might actually be tempting me away now lol.

yellowtailroll · 27/07/2019 18:59

www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/brit-schoolboy-could-become-multi-18783403

Two million pounds for a computer game competition. What has this world come to?

TrendyNorthLondonTeen · 27/07/2019 19:00

You could say the same about football, golf, tennis, darts...

yellowtailroll · 28/07/2019 18:30

He "practiced" for eight hours a day!

December2019 · 04/08/2019 12:23

@yellowtailroll I'd rather watch a gaming competition than a bunch of boys kick a football round a field for a lot more money

Dontsharefood · 06/08/2019 21:19

After what happened last week, I'd say you should definately never marry a "gamer".

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