New to MN - 1st post.
I have just received an email from my ex’s mother saying she will no longer be allowing DS (her DGS) into her home. The reason she has given for this is that she’s constantly having to readjust her life to accommodate DS.
My ex is living with her just now. I have tried and tried to sort a routine with him as to days and times he takes DS. He’s not interested. He contacts me on random days and says he can’t take DS on this day or that day but will take him XYZ. If I don’t agree he threatens me with legal action.
According to ex’s mother in this email, she’s never made aware of when DS will be at hers and she finds out at short notice, meaning she often has to cancel plans or rearrange her life to suit DS being there.
She said she will allow DS back of there is a legal arrangement put in place detailing dates and times my ex will have DS, then she knows not to make plans for those times and won’t have to rearrange things at short notice. She’s basically said she’s still allowing my ex to live there but not have his son there until there is a legal agreement in place.
Is she BU?