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To give ds the benefit of the doubt and believe him

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IonlySMOKEwhenIMonFiRE · 24/06/2019 15:07

Ds’s girlfriend is 11 weeks pregnant, they are both 17 and although when they found out about the pregnancy there were lots of tears and reality checks they have decided to go through with the pregnancy.

2 weeks ago it came to light that ds ex-girlfriend is pregnant and she is claiming that ds is the father, ds is still friends with his ex and he has now admitted staying over at her parents house with her a few times but he is denying sleeping with her.

His girlfriend has ended the relationship with him because of this and refuses to answer any of his calls so he decided to give her some space in the hope that she would calm down and speak to him.

He went out with his friends on Saturday night and his girlfriend phoned me in tears because someone sent her a snapchat of ds kissing his friends cousin and she said she’s also heard that he slept with the cousin, I was furious and when ds got home I questioned him about it and he denied it all and told me that I either believe him or stay out of his personal life.

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whothedaddy · 25/06/2019 13:22

So everyone is lying but him right? poor thing! not.

Ground his arse FFS he is a CHILD bring potentially 2 other children into the world.
He has been given far too much freedom and has zero respect for other people or responsibilities.
I get that he is your son and you love him unconditionally but what a little shit

Chocolateychocolate · 25/06/2019 13:41

OP? OP? Where've ya gone??

LagunaBubbles · 25/06/2019 13:51

What a mess, why would his ex girlfriend phone you?

TheLittleDogLaughed · 25/06/2019 14:03

Chocolateychocolate the OP is sitting somewhere, maybe a log cabin in the clouds, having a good laugh.

Zilla1 · 25/06/2019 14:07

Haven't read all posts but at the risk of sounding like Ross from Friends, if his (ex-)girlfriend ended the relationship before he went out on Saturday, weren't they on a break?

I'd try and not get too involved, keep a relationship with your GC's mother/son's ex-girlfriend while not alienating your DS.

Good luck with that.

Durgasarrow · 25/06/2019 14:42

What does "support" mean. Support reality and truth.

girlwithadragontattoo · 26/06/2019 12:55

2eternities

I completely miss-read this, i though the GF was now the ex-GF and complaining because he'd slept with someone else.
It is possible to mis-read things

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