To give ds the benefit of the doubt and believe him

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Ds’s girlfriend is 11 weeks pregnant, they are both 17 and although when they found out about the pregnancy there were lots of tears and reality checks they have decided to go through with the pregnancy.

2 weeks ago it came to light that ds ex-girlfriend is pregnant and she is claiming that ds is the father, ds is still friends with his ex and he has now admitted staying over at her parents house with her a few times but he is denying sleeping with her.

His girlfriend has ended the relationship with him because of this and refuses to answer any of his calls so he decided to give her some space in the hope that she would calm down and speak to him.

He went out with his friends on Saturday night and his girlfriend phoned me in tears because someone sent her a snapchat of ds kissing his friends cousin and she said she’s also heard that he slept with the cousin, I was furious and when ds got home I questioned him about it and he denied it all and told me that I either believe him or stay out of his personal life.

Oh, you’re THAT poster. Well what a fucking prince you’ve managed to raise. Still, considering the lack of judgement you demonstrated on your other thread this latest adventure comes as no surprise. I’d get him castrated before he does any more damage.

It is the poor babies I feel for. Couldnt make this up.

Dear god, sorry but your son sounds like a sleazy pig.

He's probably already with the third girl. What an absolute mess.

Time for a reality check for your son. He's going to have to pay for those children, however many there are. I hope he is told to take paternity tests, so he doesn't get to weasel out of his responsibility.

But I also wonder if this is real and would like some popcorn.

17 and already 2 kids on the way... and you choose to believe HIM? quite a lad you have there OP

It is the poor babies I feel for. Couldnt make this up

At a guess I'd say someone just did

Log cabin mum?

Very interesting...Clearly the safe sex talk didn't work. Your son sounds like a pig with no respect for women. And from reading your previous thread, it's clear who he gets this attitude from!

So two girls pregnant and he decides to go on a night out with his friends. Ffs.

I would say he will be getting the shock of all shocks when the babies are born and he needs to actually look after them. No nights out then. But I'd bet my left hand he won't be involved in either childs life. And I'd bet my right hand you will blame the mothers for that.

Getting your son out of their lives will be the best thing these women ever do.

Think you need a good chat with your son about protection. Possibly 2 children at the age of 17 🤷‍♀️

If he wants you to stay out of his business then he should move out or pay you market rate rent and have a good think about how he is going to pay child maintenance for two kids.

Sorry OP, accidents happen but there's accidents and pure recklessness and not giving a shit. He sounds disrespectful of women - these girls and you also.

Takes two to tango but I'd bet my life the mothers of his kids (and likely their parents) will be contributing a million times more to the kids than he does.

I'm pretty incredulous about this boy. And I say that as a Mum of a DS16 going on 17 whose GF17 sleeps over in his double bed at our house. The difference to me is that they have been together for 9 months, they are very respectful of each other and are practising safe sex. I also checked that her parents know she is staying over and happy with it.

I would be absolutely mortified if she got pregnant - I know with condoms that there is still a risk but she is also now on the pill so I feel better. The thought my DS would then get another girl pregnant is beyond the pale! I would kill him!

Your DS really needs to be read the riot act and to be stopped from going out. He needs to understand his responsibilities and be planning for how he is going to support potentially 2 children. His childhood and personal life are over. They are your business and he needs to think about how he's going to be earning money to support his children. The time for him to massively grow up is now. You and your husband should be laying down the law right now. You've sleep walked into this.

Log cabin? Ds has had his chopper out then?

Wow what a prince!
My ds is 16 and if, a year from now he'd got 2 girls pregnant I'd chop his balls off myself.

He’s got no respect for women, including you. I’d be far more wary of upsetting his pregnant ex’s than him, you’ll be relying on them to see your grandchildren!

Ehm...does it really matter? There are a bit more high stakes here than if he made out/slept with a random person. I guess in a few weeks we find out if there is 3rd on the way.

The OP has just thrown a firework into MN and must be laughing at all our reactions now.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3542486-he-asked-me-to-lie-to-her-parents

Timings add up.

If this is real I’d be utterly ashamed of the lack of values I’d managed to instil in my child.

I’ve got no advice - your son is a disgrace.

OP's not been back I see.......

So both girls are lying or misguided and he is being truthful? Yeah right. Your ds needs to keep it in his pants or use a condom. Have a look at the shitty men on the relationships board op, it sounds like your ds's future. I wouldn't believe a word he says tbh.

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