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to think that old people should mind their own business

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katybump · 24/07/2007 20:30

My dd is 3months old and has a strawberry birthmark on her forehead{between her eyes}It is very obvious but doesn't affect her in anyway.While at the doctors with her today {for an unrelated matter}an old man in the waiting room decided to engage us in conversation and then asked me what i was going to do about her birthmark. I told him nothing as it would eventually go away.To this he replied "You should get it removed,nobody wants to grow up with a thing like on their face"

I was gobsmacked and at first thought i may have misheard him but his wife told him to shut up.I asked him not to speak about my daughter like that but he just shrugged his shoulders.

I had to leave the waiting room as i was shaking so much and close to tears.When he left he tried to say goodbye to meand i asked him to leave me alone .His wife then decided to have ago and told me she'd get worse than that and she probably desrved it .ffs how can a 3mth old baby deserve anything.

My dh decided to follow them outside and speak to them.After more words were spoken my dh came back inside and then the man came back and tried to say he hadn't meant it.Talk about red rag to a bull,i swear if he hadn't left i think my dh would have gotten violent.

Sorry for the long post but i needed to get this off my chest before i explode

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purplecrocs · 17/09/2007 10:57

great point mustsleep. have done a quick google and this looks good and is recommended in UK as well as US:

www.buddyboobysbirthmark.com/

SleeplessInTheStaceym11House · 17/09/2007 11:00

oh katybump how horrible!! and for you!

fwiw my dd had exactly what you describe, she is now nearly 3 and it looks like a small graze.

if anyone had ever spoke to me like that about it i would have slapped them, and im not normally violent!!

dd has grown up calling hers a 'special spot' it makes them who they are and its beautiful! also it helps them identify their baby pics from their siblings! !

hold your head up! your little girl is beautiful despite some stupid old man!

mustsleep · 17/09/2007 11:01

thanks will definately order for ds t have a read of think that it will help him understand a bit more

bubblagirl · 17/09/2007 11:09

when i was a baby i had a huge red mark on the side of my eye a big round mark and of coures i was always commented on so my mum kept saying it was a beauty spot then all the children that had been rude were running off saying they wanted a beauty spot lol

i will say it has completely dissapeared pay no attention to idle minded people feel sorry for them your baby is gorgeous just the way she is but knowing that ther eis sometjing obvious on her face will make you more suspicious of people looks anyway my mum said this ignore people who make stupid comments

SleeplessInTheStaceym11House · 17/09/2007 11:09

katybump that is almost exactly the same as my dds (just looked at the profile) as i say dd is nearly 3 and its almost gone, il try and get a pi on my profile for you!

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