To wonder how you would feel if you found out your DP cross dressed?

[BalletBunting]

And by cross dressing I just mean occasionally wearing some make up/skirts/dresses/heels. Would it bother you? I was reading a thread of women who'd been through that experience, and I realised myself that the idea of DH doing it makes my skin crawl, although I can't quite pin point why.

“I’m a man, I like these clothes, men should be able to wear these clothes whilst still being men”
Absolutely fine

e.g. relaxing in a sarong like David Beckham, secure in his own masculinity

BUT
if he's sexually turned on by it, we could still be platonic friends, but not in a sexual / romantic relatonship

Thanks @PookieDo that's a relief. DH is totally masculine, we've been together 15 years and took me by surprise and got me a little worried.

Turned off, which would be my prerogative. Wouldn't be convinced that I was too inhibited to allow somebody else to explore their sexuality blah blah blah, that's all about them. It'd turn me off, so deal breaker.

Interesting that a poster said she'd be turned on by it!

@soarin try not to worry but if you don’t like it that’s ok and it’s ok to tell him
But if you only don’t like it because it might make him a cross dresser it’s unlikely. He was probably just feeling a bit kinky in the moment