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Using a unisex toilet for the first time.

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unisexloo · 30/05/2019 22:16

We took DD to sea life and when we went to the toilet to my surprise there was 1 and it was unisex!! Poor DH walked round the corner looking for the mens 😂

Thought I would share dh & I experience! Very strange doing a wee next door to DH, and the other lady in there looked VERY uncomfortable! DH got in & out as quick as possible and hated being in there with another woman said he would rather pee himself than go in there alone without me...

Obviously I cant comment very much as there was no other men in there but the thought of being along with a man in the toilets REALLY freaked me out for some reason, not to mention the cubicle I walked into had the seat UP, toilet paper on the floor as well as what I can only assume was P*SS 🤢 had to tell DD NOT to touch the walls as it smelled of urine also...

Anybody else had any experiences yet in a unisex loo? Safe to say I complained on my way out, I can deal with unisex toilets if I HAVE to when DH is around what I cant deal with is standing in a mans urine and having to wipe it of the seat ! Barf.....

OP posts:
tilder · 01/06/2019 08:45

As for who benefits?

The owners of the venue as they only need to provide unisex and disabled.

Boys deemed too old for the ladies.

Transwomen.

Predators.

I totally accept that for some of the above a valid argument exists for different provision to that currently provided. Why does it need to be at the expense of biological women?

Just because some women are comfortable with it, doesn't mean we all are. It's not about saying 'I'm not vulnerable', it's about safe spaces until we are all not vulnerable.

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