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To fancy a teacher at my sons school?

163 replies

askingforamate · 19/05/2019 18:45

Any teachers out there? What's the deal?

Said teacher is single, I feel like it's a mutual thing, I really don't know.

Is there a policy on teacher/parent dating?

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crochetmonkey69 · 21/05/2019 09:34

askingforamate
Enjoy your crush and get to know him at events- you never know!

askingforamate · 21/05/2019 09:46

@crochetmonkey69 haha I'm half thinking roll on the summer hols and then it will be a case of out of sight out of mind.

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RockinHippy · 21/05/2019 10:04

No, friends DDs DF did this & it royally messed up her time at that school & lead to bullying, that lead to her self harming

Don't do it

CheesecakeAddict · 21/05/2019 10:16

So DC is 10 and I presume there leaving anyway in a year or 2. I'd go for it. Life is too short for regrets

askingforamate · 21/05/2019 10:43

@CheesecakeAddict if he wasn't in the job he is in and was just a guy in a normal job, I really would, life is short. In this case however, there's too much at risk. And no easy way to approach it.

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OhDearGodLookAtThisMess · 21/05/2019 18:46

I'd go for it. Life is too short for regrets

And STILL we have people not getting it!!!

Thetruthwillout80 · 22/05/2019 07:05

I won't even be making an effort to smile at him now

Huh?Confused

There's no point 'sulking' at him. He's done nowt wrong!

Carry on smiling at him and being friendly, even if there is nothing to gain.

askingforamate · 22/05/2019 07:32

Oh I will. I just mean I won't be smiling with hope it turn into anything.

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Justmeand3 · 13/04/2022 23:56

Soooo, I wonder what happened???!

gingerbiscuits · 14/04/2022 09:10

@askingforamate I work in a Primary School & it's a definite NO for staff to cross that line. 🤷‍♀️

Wordsofthewise · 15/04/2022 10:46

@Justmeand3 I’m also curious what happened after and how op is doing now Grin

JudgeJ · 15/04/2022 11:11

@ImposterSyndrome101

My sister dated my high school english teacher. Massive age gap between us so he was the same age as her. It was interesting coming down stairs sunday morning finding him and my sister there because they'd arranged to come take me and mum out for breakfast. Downright mortifying when he announced at the end of english to remember he was taking me home because mum was busy and it didn't make sense for my sister to make the journey when he was going there anyway. They broke up when I was in my final year and he was still as nice to me as he was to everyone else
A girl in my sixth form class was horrified to come dowstairs on Sunday morning to find a maths teacher at the table, clearly having been their all night with her older sister! He hadn't made the connection as they had a fairly ordinary surname and the sister hadn't bothered to tell either of them.
JudgeJ · 15/04/2022 11:18

been their all night with her older sister!

Whoops, a far greater crime has been committed, he'd been there all night, obviously, not their!

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