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AIBU?

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Aibu to feel the absolute RAGE with this Tinder date?

405 replies

Pulipatchouli · 16/05/2019 22:50

I met a guy for a date and really liked him.
We fell out. Because I left a card through his letterbox which he said endangered his vulnerable clients. Obviously i found this offensive and utterly ridiculous. I'm sure his postman violates his mailbox often!
He keeps messaging me to say 'thanks for the lovely book you sent me but I don't want to go out with you'
And other patronising shit .
I am full of RAGE.

Because he acts like I am sending him presents to win him back when he is obviously a vain plonker!!
And breathe

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MummyParanoia101 · 17/05/2019 02:11

So @Pulipatchouli is getting angry because AIBU doesn't consist of mind readers?!

Sweetheart, re-read your OP! You haven't given us half the information required to give you any kind of response!!!

JemimaPDuck · 17/05/2019 02:17

Did he give you his address? Or did you do some super sleuthing??

Aimily · 17/05/2019 02:20

I'm so confused. You're angry because you went on a date, argued and sent him a card... Or did you argue because you sent him the card?
How did you get his address?

Hes now sending you rude messages because he's receiving gifts, not from you but is assuming they are from you and saying that you are endangering his clients... Apart from a book, what else is he accusing you of sending??

Also another for the contents of the card please.

DioneTheDiabolist · 17/05/2019 02:20

The spies are at it again. Using MN as a coded way to send a message each other.

Shhhhhh WattdeEll.Hmm

DioneTheDiabolist · 17/05/2019 02:21

What was the book OP?

Monty27 · 17/05/2019 02:26

Ops back at the drawing board Grin

PatricksRum · 17/05/2019 02:36

Pm

Yousicktwistedfruit · 17/05/2019 02:52

I have no idea what is going on here but am shamelessly place marking just so I can find out what the deuce is going on.

Adversecamber22 · 17/05/2019 03:00

Maybe he freaked out because he hadn’t given her his address.

FuriousVexation · 17/05/2019 03:38

OP, did you send the card to his home, or his work address?

If home, I assume you know where he lives because you either went there to knock boots with him, or you were kind enough to drop him off home after your initial date.

If work, and he works with vulnerable adults, he was stupid as fuck to share that info on a first date.

memaymamo · 17/05/2019 03:51

JamieVardy nailed it.

He's married and freaking out.

stayathomer · 17/05/2019 04:10

The original Sharon threads were some kind of stream on consciousness under various name changes about throwing red wine up curtains, wasps, screaming, her partner putting his hands in such a position in the supermarket that he appeared to be 't-rexing', and various bewildering friends

It's too freaky reading this at 4 o clock in the morning

Aprillygirl · 17/05/2019 04:21

So you sent the card to his work,or does he work from home? What does he do that he has clients who are vulnerable? Did you not put the card in an envelope so that these clients could not be affected by it? What sort of card was it anyway? Who's sending him books? Why don't you block his number? Why am I asking so many questions to a stranger on the internet when I should be asleep? Confused

Lofari · 17/05/2019 04:35

What did you fall out about?

Lalala89 · 17/05/2019 04:49

Place marking because I neeeeed answers to the questions asked several times before me

Nodnol · 17/05/2019 04:58

You what now?

Alicewond · 17/05/2019 05:00

Did you send him a boiled bunny with the card? You sound very scary!

redhotchill · 17/05/2019 05:02

Cmon OP, have you sobered up yet? What's going on?!

Alicewond · 17/05/2019 05:05

I keep checking the news for weird stalker attacks just in case it’s related to this!

IronManisnotDead · 17/05/2019 05:06

These posts 😂😂😂

Mummyoflittledragon · 17/05/2019 05:29

Did the card say “will you marry me?”. And the clients, is he a gigolo or something, who won’t be able to service them anymore?

Please come back and tell us because he sounds insane. Block and move on.

MRex · 17/05/2019 06:40

So if OP sent a card and presumably tinder date #2 sent a book, this guy must be upping his game. What will tinder date #3 send - a puppy?

Arabuella · 17/05/2019 06:46

Did you fall out because he did the t-Rex on the date?

I do love a Sharon thread.

KatherineJaneway · 17/05/2019 06:50

How do you stand like a t-rex?

theboomtownrat · 17/05/2019 06:52

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