We have a 5 week old baby who cries almost constantly and hardly sleeps. I’m mentally and physically exhausted. I’ve asked DP to help with night feeds and he refuses to - he said it’s not practical as he has to get up for work. He doesn’t help out with household chores except wash the odd dish and doesn’t cook so if I don’t have time to cook we either don’t eat or have to order takeaways. We also have 2 other children.
So basically, he goes to work and does fuck all else while I’m having to keep a house, look after 3 kids, cook and deal with the food shop every week - all this while surviving on hardly any sleep.
Is he BU?