18 years old, been arrested a couple of times for assault. He dabbles with drugs, has dodgy mates, doesn’t work and has just started claiming universal credit. He’s done absolutely nothing for two years and I’ve given him warning after warning.
Last night he told me he was staying at a mates house. Left his Facebook open and I read messages between him and his mates regarding getting “P” (whatever the fuck that is, I’m assuming “pills”, vodka and “tramping out” which basically means sitting on the street all night. He came home this morning wearing a gold Rolex watch. Could be fake but looks expensive, very heavy etc. I questioned him and he said his mate “let him borrow it” why the fuck would you let a mate borrow a gold Rolex??
Anyway, icing on the cake ... he text me early this morning asking what time I’d be home from work. I replied “about 12.30”. Ive just gone upstairs and he his sparked out on his bed. I notice spare bedroom door is shut too which is unusual. I go in to see everything that I had on the bed moved off it and the duvet ruffled up as if someone has been on, or in it. So, he’ll deny it but he’s basically had his scaggy mate in to sleep off whatever they did last night hasn’t he?
All his mates (and girlfriend) are in hostels as their parents have kicked them out. I’ve threatened him with this and he says he doesn’t want to leave as he likes living here. Of course he fucking does!! No rent, no bills, do what the fuck you want with no consequences ...
AIBU to say enough is enough and send him to the hostels?