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Son shown his willy during lesson

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Harryy · 04/04/2019 18:42

Today after school the teacher has told me that my 5 year old son had pulled down his pants and showed his willy to the class during PE and tomorrow he will be missing out on his morning break time surely this behaviour should be dealt with on the day it happens? (PE was the last lesson)

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McHelenz · 04/04/2019 20:39

@CallmeKaren No one is saying that to teach children this is ok, but doing this doesn't mean this child is going to be some sort of sex offender.

Sounds like you have your kids on a ridiculous pedestal, its going to be interesting when they rebel.

myrtleWilson · 04/04/2019 20:40

Am losing track a bit of karen's names for all the children - first up it was Molly and Bryon (which I wasn't sure was a take on Bryan/Brian or meant to be Byron) and now we have Johnnie...
Seriously Karen you need to calm down a bit, I think this is your first day on MN unless you're a NC'er - if the former you're going to have to pace yourself a bit or you'll end up with extremely high blood pressure...

McHelenz · 04/04/2019 20:41

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Claw01 · 04/04/2019 20:41

And no they should not be punishing him, they should be teaching him what is and isn’t appropriate

CallmeKaren · 04/04/2019 20:41

It's the Dad posting! He's probably proud of his ds!

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Harryy · 04/04/2019 20:42

@CallmeKaren how does that explain a lot just because I'm a man?

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McHelenz · 04/04/2019 20:42

@callmekaren shut up Karen.

CallmeKaren · 04/04/2019 20:43

Honey - please tell your son that much and all as you are both proud of your appendages, nobody else wants to see them. Thanks.

TheFormidableMrsC · 04/04/2019 20:44

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Harryy · 04/04/2019 20:44

I'm not proud off what he's done! He knows he shouldn't be showing it off

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Spikeyball · 04/04/2019 20:45

CallmeKaren I think you should consider home educating. You might find it less stressful.

Claw01 · 04/04/2019 20:45

Ignore twat posters!

Limensoda · 04/04/2019 20:46

My ds wouldn't do this either. He never did even as a toddler!

No, I bet he wouldn't dare from seeing your reaction to this.

CallmeKaren · 04/04/2019 20:46

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McHelenz · 04/04/2019 20:46

@callmeKaren bored are you?

Claw01 · 04/04/2019 20:46

OP social stories are good, maybe you could suggest this to school?

MutantDisco · 04/04/2019 20:47

DS1 did this last year Blush he struggled a lot with understanding expectations during reception (possible ASD).

I explained that it wasn't safe to show our private parts to people, and he never did it again.

CallmeKaren · 04/04/2019 20:47

Oh now we're going to get the fawning over the man poster.

When little Susan comes home in tears saying little Dick showed her his penis, come back to me.

Children have an instinctual knowledge of what is appropriate.

Limensoda · 04/04/2019 20:48

It's the Dad posting! He's probably proud of his ds!

You think he should be ashamed? Maybe have the child castrated? You really are being silly.

McHelenz · 04/04/2019 20:48

OP another vote for social stories. Public and private ones are very common and the NAS may have resources for you to print.

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Darayan20 · 04/04/2019 20:49

Callmekaren
Seems like you and your kids come from an other planet

NaughtToThreeSadOnions · 04/04/2019 20:49

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MutantDisco · 04/04/2019 20:50

@CallmeKaren autistic children don't have an inbuilt understanding of what's appropriate