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AIBU to never go here again & tell everyone I know how awful it is?

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FrazzledCareerWoman · 08/03/2019 15:34

New fancy "mums brasserie" type place has opened in the London suburb where I live. Think zone 3, up and coming area. Lots of yummy mummies, baby classes, mums fitness, etc around. People have money to spend.

So they open this place that is marketed as a wellness and foodie experience where you can have lunch and spa treatments while they watch your little darlings. Sounds amazing, non?

They also will have classes for the kids that are put on by external providers, and a soft play area.

Okay, fine. Me and NCT friend decide to go and check it out just for lunch.

Well, I think I'm still in shock. No alcohol at all firstly - I tried to order a glass of Prosecco and they were like "what's that"? So clearly missing a trick there 🤷🏻‍♀️

Secondly, waiting staff obviously had never worked in so much as a greasy spoon previously as they were faffing around doing very little, extremely inattentive and managed to take an hour to bring our starters and a further 30 mins for our next courses. To be fair they claimed this was due to a power cut (which lasted about 5 mins after we had already been waiting for an hour).

Thirdly, it was eye wateringly expensive. Their sushi chef hadn't started yet and so they was barely anything on the menu that was available.

Our bill was £43, no alcohol, 1 tea, 1 latte, 1 dip with crudités, 1 broccoli soup, 1 stale foccacia slice, 1 eggs Benedict with cold sauce , 1 basic salad.

I waited an hour for a “Japanese style avocado salad” that was cucumber tomato and iceberg lettuce. The bread with my soup was stale.

So you would think we were offered our meal for free after all that wouldn't you? Well not only am I ashamed to say I didn't blink and paid the full £43 when asked but the owner had the audacity to offer us "a free dish next time you come".

I feel like they are totally ruining something that could have been great! And they are clearly mental and have done zero research. Membership is around £500 a year.

Just speechless.

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Caxx · 08/03/2019 15:37

First world problems

AmIOTTconcerned · 08/03/2019 15:37

Well the food service definitely sounds awful.

Everything else they offer sounds really good though.

You can definitely tell people how awful it is as long as you make it clear you only went there for lunch.

Kenworthington · 08/03/2019 15:37

I’m quite speechless too tbh but possibly not for the same reason as you op.

John470322 · 08/03/2019 15:38

I waited an hour for a “Japanese style avocado salad” that was cucumber tomato and iceberg lettuce.
What happened to the avocado? Surely an essential ingredient
YANBU

FrazzledCareerWoman · 08/03/2019 15:39

Okay sorry there was avocado in jt!

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ziggiestardust · 08/03/2019 15:41

Yeah I wouldn’t be happy at all with that. I’m not sure I’d want to go back and try the baby classes after that!

FrazzledCareerWoman · 08/03/2019 15:41

Exactly @ziggiestardust it doesn't exactly inspire confidence

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MamaLovesMango · 08/03/2019 15:41

You should write to your MP

ziggiestardust · 08/03/2019 15:42

“First world problems” Sorry are we not allowed to post here if we aren’t facing a life changing crisis? 😒

FrazzledCareerWoman · 08/03/2019 15:42

Thought it was almost funny it's so bad, but clearly I need to be flamed for having first world problems 😆

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Bowchicawowow · 08/03/2019 15:43

This thread is why I left London.

FrazzledCareerWoman · 08/03/2019 15:43

@Kenworthington I'm curious?

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FrazzledCareerWoman · 08/03/2019 15:44

@Bowchicawowow I hear you !

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nombrecambio · 08/03/2019 15:45

YABU to drink prosecco. It's champagne lambrini... that might explain the service afterwards. They assumed you were a bit c-word!

LovingLola · 08/03/2019 15:46

Was there a drinks menu ?

Bowchicawowow · 08/03/2019 15:46

Grin OP.

MamaLovesMango · 08/03/2019 15:46

You went to a new place, they were having teething problems and you didn’t like it. Somebody might walk in tomorrow and really enjoy it. It’s one of those things, it really isn’t the the earth shattering life experience you’re describing. Certainly nothing to be ‘speechless’ about which you clearly aren’t.

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FrazzledCareerWoman · 08/03/2019 15:47

@nombrecambio Grin

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FrazzledCareerWoman · 08/03/2019 15:48

I think it's a bit worse than teething problems to totally misprice your menu, open before you have got the right staff and serve stale bread.

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fibrecruncher · 08/03/2019 15:48

Hi op,
Is this in SW London? It must be the same place I visited yesterday with my son in the early evening - lots of similarities! I definitely experienced some of the same things i.e. basic salad, high bill, stale focaccia. But to be fair I had a long chat with the owner and she was lovely. I think they are having the typical growing pains of a new business - the sushi chef had walked out after lunch the day before. From the sounds of it it could be amazing - I will give it another go.

MamaLovesMango · 08/03/2019 15:48

YABU to drink prosecco. It's champagne lambrini

And this FFS. Don’t you know anything?!

FrazzledCareerWoman · 08/03/2019 15:49

At least @MrsTommyBanks can do a proper old style flaming. Props Smile

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RuggyPeg · 08/03/2019 15:49

What did the police say?

PlainSpeakingStraightTalking · 08/03/2019 15:50

Lots of yummy mummies, baby classes, mums fitness, etc around. People have money to spend. [vomit]

Anyway, so you wanted to get pissed up with kids in tow, palm them off on the entertainers, and now you're complaining they didnt have any fizzy wine to guzzle.

TBH with you, I fail to see how you can tell us all how awful it was and not mention the name of the place.

Membership is around £500 a year.

one born every minute.

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