ThunderStorms, you seem obsessed with double standards as though men and women play exact and equal roles in creating babies, but they don't. Men simply have to spaff once. Even in a straightforward, low-risk pregnancy, women have to have their entire body change, suffer all manner of indignities, lose sleep, lose mental and physical energy, vomit, get constipated, spend money on new clothes and bras, go through labour, bleed and leak afterwards... there's already a biological double standard at play. Giving women our rightful bodily autonomy to choose whether to gestate or abort simply redresses that balance and levels the playing field.
In the words of Tupac, since a man can't make one / He has no right to tell a woman when and where to create one