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To think that Martina Navratilova should not have to apologise for the transgender comment?

269 replies

Nickersnackersnockers · 03/03/2019 12:47

Rachel McKinnon is a transgender cyclist, who, surprise surprise, is winning races against women.

Ok, maybe Navratilova shouldn't have used the word cheated, but surely nobody can disagree with the fact that Ms McKinnon has a male body, and the size and strength of a man, and having the right to compete against women is just plain wrong?

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SardineQueenII · 03/03/2019 17:57

Pinky

As in

You think it's OK to change what they mean without consulting the people they belong to?

Yes I saw that.

To current trans thinking you would be considered to be anti trans. Is that a better explanation?

IDoN0tCare · 03/03/2019 17:57

So PinkyU, are you saying that transsexuals are wrong or lying, when they say they are not women, but are men that present as women or are transwomen? Who is right in that argument? The transwoMen who say they are women or the transsexuals, some of whome post on Mumsnet, who acknowledge that they are men.

JacquesHammer · 03/03/2019 17:58

PinkyU

Just wondering why someone who isn’t at the very least slightly experienced in a contact sport is so adamant on how those of us who are would be affected by playing with biological males.

Fairenuff · 03/03/2019 18:05

I would disagree with the female portion of that statement

So you are saying that you do believe transwomen are women but you do not believe they are female.

That's a new one to me.

placemats · 03/03/2019 18:25

Rachel Mckinnon is not and never will be a biological woman. No biological woman has a prostate gland. And those who have had their prostate glands removed are not biological women.

Own, or have ever owned a prostate gland makes you male.

Rachel McKinnon is glad to add women to a list. Has Rachel updated this to include Daley Thompson?

twitter.com/GappyTales/status/1101579810722246656

placemats · 03/03/2019 18:28

RM is an abusive, creepy misogynist who doesn't give a fuck about women.

FizzAfterSix · 03/03/2019 18:32

I'm with Martina on this one.

RepealTheGRA · 03/03/2019 18:38

YANBU

Men should not be allowed to participate in women’s sports.

Men who insist on doing so are misogynistic, abusive cheating creeps.

Anybody who has the abject nerve to abuse Martina, who has been an LGBT advocate for longer than I’ve been alive, for her thoroughly reasonable and considered comments, is quite frankly, an arsehole.

ToeToToe · 03/03/2019 18:38

RM is an abusive, creepy misogynist who doesn't give a fuck about women.

I believe it may be even worse than that. Rachel McKinnon wishes to dominate women, actively despises women - women are the evidence that Rachel M can never ever be a woman.

Fairenuff · 03/03/2019 18:52

I hope the BBC know what they are doing aligning themselves with McKinnon.

Actually, IDGAF they will both come crashing down.

Intohellbutstayingstrong · 03/03/2019 18:56

Well..... I asked a reasonable question... how can a man be a biological woman and have now been blocked by RM

RiverTam · 03/03/2019 19:01

Pinky how can words have very little meaning for you? It is literally impossibly to communicate unless words have meaning. So you're not interested in any form of spoken or written communication?

Fromage · 03/03/2019 19:17

I'd like to challenge RM to a cycling race.

I'm female, 10 years older than RM, I've not ridden a bike since the 1980s and that was a BMX, also at my weight, anything short of a quadbike would crumble under me like it was made of pastry. I'll win the race though.

I'll be in my car, but I'm going to identify as a woman on a pushbike.

Ready, steady, go.

JamesBlonde1 · 03/03/2019 19:36

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BoreOfWhabylon · 03/03/2019 20:06

McKinnon's PhD thesis was titled "Reasonable Assertions: On Norms of Assertion and Why You Don't Need to Know What You're Talking About"

uwspace.uwaterloo.ca/handle/10012/6619

McKinnon knows McKinnon is not a woman. McKinnon is playing some sort of twisted game.

RepealTheGRA · 03/03/2019 20:08

So is McKinnon just trolling on a massive scale? That’s an interesting theory.

JamesBlonde1 · 03/03/2019 20:09

I’m not on twitter, but for those who are please support and keep supporting Sharon, Martina and others over this monumental issue.

TalkingintheDark · 03/03/2019 20:14

Fromage Grin

And of course Martina shouldn’t have to apologise! It should be McKinnon apologising to her, and to all women, especially women in sport and the women losing out because of this unrepentant cheat.

The way the BBC is apparently in thrall to extremist trans activists is disturbing and sickening. One of their other low points was when they reported on the trial of another cheating trans male, Lauren Jeska, and didn’t even reference the fact that Jeska is trans - even though the attempted murder Jeska was ultimately convicted of hinged entirely on the fact that Jeska is transgender.

Those reports of a “woman” being tried for a particularly vicious, violent, male pattern crime that had its origins in Jeska cheating women out of sporting success - they blew my mind with their total lack of concern for truth or facts.

WarpedGalaxy · 03/03/2019 20:22

So is McKinnon just trolling on a massive scale? That’s an interesting theory.

Well, as theories go I’d find that a lot easier to swallow than RM’s, granted much more interesting, premise that RM is a woman with a woman’s penis because RM says so.

Bluestitch · 03/03/2019 20:23

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SemperIdem · 03/03/2019 20:26

Martina has my support. Yanbu

Nearly47 · 03/03/2019 20:37

I thought I was alone in this. My niece think I am transphobic. I am not. But I don't think they are women. They are trans- women.

Singlewhiteguineapig · 03/03/2019 20:37

I’ve been blocked by RM for what I don’t know because I don’t say or do nasty things on the internet

Intohellbutstayingstrong · 03/03/2019 20:39

@Blue and @Single. Me to. She shuts down anyone who disagrees with her ideology

BanginChoons · 03/03/2019 21:31

@TalkingintheDark no I hadn't heard of ROGD. I will read up on it and also the sites you mentioned.

She has hinted at it for over a year so it hasn't come as a massive shock. She experiences utter disgust with herself since she started her periods and is very uncomfortable with her body since puberty began. She has never been a confident child and does struggle with friendships and in social situations. It is possible that there are some lasting affects from.my experiences.

I'm very new on this journey and I want her to feel supported but I am of course worried in case this isn't the right thing for her. Thank you for taking the time to reply to me. It is very much appreciated.