Treating every child like a walking talking disease and treating them as though they are is where I see the issue.
That’s ridiculous hyperbole. Again, perhaps if your child had almost died from one of these illnesses you would understand. I cannot explain the anger I felt at knowing someone had brought such a dangerous illness into a NICU, even though logically that had to be tempered by the fact that whooping cough is not as severe in adults, they may not have realised what it was, unless pregnant adults don’t have whooping cough boosters, etc.
How would you honestly feel if you sent your child to school and they caught measles from an unvaccinated child and died or were permanently disabled?
How would you feel if your child needed chemotherapy and sending them to school was like playing russian roulette with their health when so much of the risk could be easily prevented?
Personally, I think people who choose not to vaccinate (rather than those who can’t vaccinate for medical reasons) are foolish and dangerous. It’s not them who’s suffering, it’s their children and others around them. Should their children be pinned down and physically forced? No. But they should have to take precautions to prevent the deaths of other people - we are potentially talking about children and vulnerable people dying here.
Why shouldn’t people have to face the consequences of their decisions, when they could be life or death consequences?