To accuse me of not liking men is unfair and totally unreasonable behaviour. Do you think I don't love my threat uncle? Suppose I hate my siblings and other men in my life?
I think its a little bit simple to lay such a silly accusation at my door when this is a very complex family situation which some on here are trying to boil down mere money and the lie. Daily situations are always far more complex than this, and it hurts me that my g.uncle was hurt this way, but his 'df' truly was a df and stood by him, I would have not loved my dear dear ggradad for behaving the way this man did toward his D's. I don't think my greats grandmother did the right thing in telling the DC, it dessimated their lives. She genuinely moved apart from her spouse, because of circumstances, and remained ever after till death to another man, (after the affair that resulted in DC finished when he abandoned her pregnant). Its horribly and messy, but my ggf stuck by them all, and would have continued, and my point is, their psyches would have remained in tact if they had kept this awful piece of information to themselves. The damage was caused by such as this unfolding story now.
Its not very grown up is it to call names at people that don't agree with your opinion.
...and as for the women support women [and their DC] yes, is exactly what MN is about. That's not the worst of MN, its the absolute best, and has supported many families out of horrible strife. If you consider, having read the horror stories frequently shared on MN, and can cast aspertions on MN ethos, one has to ask who does that.