To know it's all gone wrong night before 12 week scan?

[missymoon]

I've had such a good gut feeling this entire pregnancy. Now my 12 week scan is tomorrow and I feel so numb because I just know the baby's dead. I know it's gone wrong. I can just sense it. All the threads I've read about mmc say that they just knew and that's exactly how I feel. The day before my scan. What a sick joke :( can these feelings ever be wrong? Sorry I know it doesn't belong here but posting for traffic I need answers or I'm going to do nothing other than cry all night. This can't be happening.

Awww OP 😅🙌🏻❤️

Fantastic news op!

What a lovely lovely thread.
Congrats OP. So very pleased to see your news

Wonderful news

I suffer from anxiety, it can feel so real.

This is amazing and has made my day. It is like one of those films where someone saves the day and everyone stands up and hugs and claps. Congratulations OP, although I knew it would be fine, but then I'm a bit smug!

That’s wonderful news 👍🏻. So happy for you missy

I think MIssy Moon and early night is called for, you and babe need sleep;).

You don't that much of that when the little 'un is born and is demanding his/her grub at 2 am like they are wont to:!.

Congratulations! And best wishes for the future. Here's hoping you're getting some sleep right now (better take my own advice).

Congratulations! Wishing you & baby continuing good health. So pleased for you

Congratulations ☺️ So pleased all was well!

So glad for you. PLEASE don’t buy a home
Doppler. They’re so easy for untrained people to mistake mums heartbeat for babies and that’s where problems come in.

Congratulations.

Agreeing with pp, and i had a doppler. Unless you are trained you can mistake heartbeats and they just act as a crutch for anxiety.

So glad for you. PLEASE don’t buy a home
Doppler

Second that. Many years ago I used to work in a TV shop as a joke we used to write on the repair ticket thats 1/6 pence for hitting the TV to make it work, and 5 guineas for knowing WHERE to hit it!

Much the same here you can have the best diagonistic equipment going but if you don't know how to drive it properley or worse still interpret the results, then it's more trouble causing than what its worth. If you do have a bit of an anxiety stress problem then theres better ways of helping that then buying equipment that will make you stress more!.

And thats a fact!!

I knew someone who bought a Doppler. She was distraught when she couldn’t find ger baby’s heart and convinced herself the worst had happened even tho she could still feel the baby actively moving in her over a sustained time (disclaimer - baby is now a very healthy 10 yo!). When she couldn’t find her own heart beat she then even managed to convince herself that she too was on the brink of death when clearly she wasn’t and even took herself to a+e to get herself checked out. She later blamed her madness on hormones Point is - unless you are trained it actually may make your anxiety much worse which isn’t helpful either for you or baby.

Oh my god how wonderful are you OP and all the lovely messages of support! Hope you're getting some rest now, you sound like you're going to make a lovely mum!

Thank god great news OP 💐

OP I am so glad it worked out, I had a feeling the night before my 12 week scan and was right, I didn’t post as didn’t want to scare you. Huge congratulations!

Warmest congrats OP

So glad you were wrong.
That looks like a truly beautiful baby

Excellent news Missy - now just try to relax a tad and enjoy.

Congratulations!!

So pleased everything is ok

He is a little boy 💙 halfway there..

Little boys are amazing. Congrats OP 💙

Awww congrats

oh how lovely to see your update. Little boys are just marvelous. Keep us posted. Can't wait to see him :)