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To know it's all gone wrong night before 12 week scan?

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missymoon · 09/01/2019 17:33

I've had such a good gut feeling this entire pregnancy. Now my 12 week scan is tomorrow and I feel so numb because I just know the baby's dead. I know it's gone wrong. I can just sense it. All the threads I've read about mmc say that they just knew and that's exactly how I feel. The day before my scan. What a sick joke :( can these feelings ever be wrong? Sorry I know it doesn't belong here but posting for traffic I need answers or I'm going to do nothing other than cry all night. This can't be happening.

OP posts:
whassupmissus · 10/01/2019 10:31

Yay

BlueTongueSkink · 10/01/2019 10:33

Aaah that's great OP!

Eatmycheese · 10/01/2019 10:33

So happy for you.

Justaboy · 10/01/2019 10:33

The power of the great will of good of the mumsent force did that dontcha know:))

Now missy moon stop bloody worrying and enjoy:)

DoingMyBest2010 · 10/01/2019 10:34

OMG! I've been waiting for this update for the last hour!! Congrats!! Now pour yourself a huge mug of tea and a massive biscuit!

planespotting · 10/01/2019 10:34

OP! SmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileThanksThanksThanksThanksThanksThanks
Look at that wee person SmileSmileSmileSmile

maras2 · 10/01/2019 10:34

Great news. So pleased for you. Bear

EmeraldShamrock · 10/01/2019 10:34

Awh wow. Congratulations I am so glad you were wrong.
Invest in a baby heart beat monitor if it puts future worries to rest.
I am delighted for you Flowers

Eatmycheese · 10/01/2019 10:34

@StepAwayFromGoogle so do I
Is it the three lines and the angle? Smile

Eatmycheese · 10/01/2019 10:35

Sorry another post from me but the baby heartbeat monitors really aren't a good idea.

AnchorDownDeepBreath · 10/01/2019 10:35

Invest in a baby heart beat monitor if it puts future worries to rest.

Don't do this. It's a really well meant gesture but Dopplers are notoriously unreliable and you'll worry yourself mad when you can't find the heartbeat.

Thanks congratulations!!

TooGood2BeFalse · 10/01/2019 10:35

Hurray!!!!Grin

pinkiepie1 · 10/01/2019 10:36

Congratulations I've been watching this thread since 4 this morning.
Please come back and tell us what you are having xxx

pinkiepie1 · 10/01/2019 10:37

When you have your next scan obviously lol... My dd has had me up since 4 lol you have all this joy to come xx

Spudlet · 10/01/2019 10:39

Oh! Am crying a bit... DH will think I'm bonkers. IT'S MY HORMONES Blush

TokyoSushi · 10/01/2019 10:39

Brilliant! Well done OP!

Sonneedshelp · 10/01/2019 10:41

This has brought tears to my eyes! You are a superstar OP and so is your baby!!

Now, please go home and grab a little rest! You must be exhausted!

Luckingfovely · 10/01/2019 10:41

BRILLIANT! Huge congratulations!

PreseaCombatir · 10/01/2019 10:41

Amazing!

Gotstuckwiththisname · 10/01/2019 10:42

Amazing. I'm so pleased OP. Grin Flowers

ToeToToe · 10/01/2019 10:43

I bet you've never been so happy to be wrong in your life OP Thanks

Congratulations - I remember feeling just the same with DC1, and he's 16yrs now Smile

Bluetrews25 · 10/01/2019 10:44

Very happy for you, OP
PLEASE can we not speculate on the boy/girl thing as OP might not want to know!!

Claredogmum · 10/01/2019 10:47

I'm delighted. I'm out with the dogs and have been checking. Brilliant news!!

Wheresthebeach · 10/01/2019 10:48

Ah....so lovely. Fab.

notWORKzilla · 10/01/2019 10:51

other posters.....

PLEASE can we not speculate on the boy/girl thing as OP might not want to know!!

Fully agree with Bluetrews' post above

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