To know it's all gone wrong night before 12 week scan?

[missymoon]

I've had such a good gut feeling this entire pregnancy. Now my 12 week scan is tomorrow and I feel so numb because I just know the baby's dead. I know it's gone wrong. I can just sense it. All the threads I've read about mmc say that they just knew and that's exactly how I feel. The day before my scan. What a sick joke :( can these feelings ever be wrong? Sorry I know it doesn't belong here but posting for traffic I need answers or I'm going to do nothing other than cry all night. This can't be happening.

Lovely update op

What a lovely update. Congratulations and am really happy everything is ok.

PLEASE can we not speculate on the boy/girl thing as OP might not want to know!!

I do not agree with this. It's speculation i.e not guaranteed/A guess/not 100%. Whether she does or doesn't want to know will not be swayed by people saying I think it's a boy/girl. Plus most info out there states you can't really tell sex from a 12 week scan. Mine could but I was 13.5 and I didn't take it as gospel, just speculation.

So glad everything is ok OP

YAY fantastic news OP

Well it's either a boy or a girl! 2/1 chance of getting it right. Never sure why people are pleased as punch when they get it right. Most sports favourites have much longer odds

Woohoo! Congrats OP! She's gorgeous.

Hope all went well x

Congratulations OP! X

Yay! I logged on hoping for exactly this update! Fab news, congrats!

Huge congratulations Missy - I hope you can now relax a little and enjoy what's to come.. it is one hell of a ride!!

Very pleased for you!

Biggest congratulations OP. Glad you were very wrong xx

Fab news OP, congratulations!

Congratulations! This is great news. I'm glad your instinct was wrong. I had a strange sense of doom in my first pregnancy and the pregnancy did unfortunately go wrong, but it really can go either way and a bad feeling may not mean anything. I'm so pleased for you OP.

Hurrah! Wonderful news

What a wonderful picture - so glad to hear your good news, @missymoon!

Awesome, congratulations!

Wow! Scan pictures have really come on in the 15 years since I had one. Many, many congratulations OP, it's wonderful to see

Came back to check and I'm so glad everything is ok! This had me in tears remembering how scared I was at my 12 week scan. My poor 10 month old doesn't know why mummy won't stop hugging her now!

Glad the scan has reassured you OP, please do discuss your anxiety with your MW she can refer you to your local Perinatal mental health service.

Great news OP.

Yay!!! Huge congrats, OP.

Of course the feelings can be wrong! I'd say they're almost always wrong!

relax and try to enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. Baby will be beautiful x

Fab news!