I don't know Mummyoflittledragon. And I've given it a lot of thought. People think it's happening elsewhere. Online, or in some niche pocket somewhere. Certainly not anywhere near them. In suburbia, or the local village.
But it is. You've got drag queen storytime, for instance. In kindergartens.
So you get into a conversation about what's wrong with drag queens, prude. As a feepaying adult, in a bar, on a hen night? Probably not much. (Unless it's just an idealogical disagreement with the entire parodying of women.) But it's blurring the lines between adults who understand sexualisation, innuendo, and dirty laughs - with kids.
It's normalising adult only stuff being okay for kids.
And this is what you get. Some 10-year-old, dancing for adults, who are fucking naked. It's the sort of photograph that you would get off a paedophile's hard drive.
And suddenly, you have to justify why you think it's wrong. And it's not that easy. You get called kink shamer, pearl clutcher, vanilla, etc. Obviously most people would think this aspect is wrong. But to me, it's all part and parcel of the blurring of the lines.