Fucking bitches

[LindaLa]

Up until very recently (last night), I had a group of 4 very close friends.

I recently had an upset of a childhood (sexual) trauma that I've told no one about. One of my friends was here when this happened and I opened up to her, she was supportive and i felt great, lighter.

Last night we all meet for drinks and exchange gifts. We all exchange various supermarket vouchers and have done since our "babies" were babies.

She makes a comment about a paedofile arrest made near her and then says "surprised you don't know him Linda, you were paedofile fodder"
Other people laugh and start questioning me about what happened.

She has told them everything.

I being questioned in a bar. A crowded bar.

I have grabbed my things and left.

Took their things out of my car and left them on the kerb.
I have blocked them. Everywhere.

I have been to supermarkets and spent all the vouchers, put it all in the food bank.

Fuck them.

I just wanted to say that I too am very pleased to see that this thread has been reinstated LindaLa. It really bothered me when you said in another thread that MNHQ hadn't contacted you after deleting this thread saying that they were looking into it. I thought that was very wrong as it seemed they were just taking the troll hunters word for it that you weren't genuine. How can that ever be just (except of course in the rare cases where an OP turns out to be a previously banned poster)?

I don't know what a Fodder is. But it sounds horrible.

How incredibly inconsiderate of them. A betrayal from the friend you confided in. Hope you'll be ok - strength & happiness to you

@Wordthe
Maybe.

I have just taken a phone call from one of them.

"I'm shocked because I thought we were close enough for you to disclose that to me. After all, you've babysat my kids"
No apology. No real remorse.

I just said "maybe I always knew that this is how you would respond and act. Goodbye"

Bitch.

@LindaLa The absolute cheek of her attitude I'm than phone call. Well done for putting her back in the box.

Wishing you a great 2019, with people who deserve you.

@InsomniacAnonymous

If I hadn't contacted mn, they would not have contacted me.

Proved by their very wishy washy "our bad" email.

Never been banned from anything (well apart from a few nightclubs but that's in the past, statute of limitations 😀)

The first rule of the narcissist
never apologise

So the nearest you get to any kind of approach from any of them is to say they're annoyed you didn't tell them? Wow.

poor you op this sounds awful.

although I have to be honest, from your descriptions of original friend I’m not sure how you were friends with her in the first place - using the daily mail as a bible, against food banks etc, using you to organise her swanky parties... she doesn’t sound great at all. she sounds like a dynasty style villain swanning about in her oscar de la renta being a grade A bitch.

better off.

RoseBromley is posting weird things on loads of threads.

I missed what rose put.

@TheMaddHugger
Are those aimed at me?
If so why?

Rose was just spam bollocks.

Madhugger was likely responding to what Rose posted. Madhugger is good peeps.

@LindaLa Rose posted one of those pants spam adverts for making money, I think the pics were aimed at her, referring to spam.

So sorry for your experience, these women were not friends, what bitches

@ LindaLa (((Hugs)))

The Gifs were for the Spammer

And ((((((Soft Hugs))) @LindaLa.

...After all, you've babysat my kids

What the hell?! Now you're at fault for not providing her with highly personal and traumatic information from well before she knew you gossip about you. What the hell does you having done her a favour by babysitting her kids have to do with it?! You're not the one minimising child abuse!!

Great response from you.

I'm wondering if your son had been asked any more "helpful" questions last night?

Good response on the phone OP.

"I thought we were close enough" etc... all about her, no regard for you.

After all, you've babysat my kids

WTAF.

That woman needs a good head wobble. Does she actually think that all victims of CBA should never have children or babysit children?? FFS.

I would have been sooo tempted to ask her why she said that to see what her ridiculous, uneducated response was!!

I agree with what @subspace just said. WTF has babysitting her DC got to do with it?

Is she trying to imply you were in the wrong for not telling her this before babysitting?

If I was her I would be more worried about the people who think child sex abuse is something to be gossiped, and jeered about rather than taken damn seriously.

Just goes to show that one may be able to buy Oscar De La Renta, however one cannot buy class.

< returns to normal broad Yorkshire > What a set of shallow, pathetic 'women'. And that phonecall - still all about her, she thought she should have been first to know, what the actual fucking fuck?

That they're actually being competitive over this - nauseating. I would never have contact with them again. Despicable behaviour.

After all you've babysat my kids

My eyebrows shot up so far I think I lost them off the top of my head.

That phone call alone surely justifies your decision to distance yourself from this woman.