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Fucking bitches

616 replies

LindaLa · 30/12/2018 11:39

Up until very recently (last night), I had a group of 4 very close friends.

I recently had an upset of a childhood (sexual) trauma that I've told no one about. One of my friends was here when this happened and I opened up to her, she was supportive and i felt great, lighter.

Last night we all meet for drinks and exchange gifts. We all exchange various supermarket vouchers and have done since our "babies" were babies.

She makes a comment about a paedofile arrest made near her and then says "surprised you don't know him Linda, you were paedofile fodder"
Other people laugh and start questioning me about what happened.

She has told them everything.

I being questioned in a bar. A crowded bar.

I have grabbed my things and left.

Took their things out of my car and left them on the kerb.
I have blocked them. Everywhere.

I have been to supermarkets and spent all the vouchers, put it all in the food bank.

Fuck them.

OP posts:
Dimsumlosesum · 30/12/2018 13:38

God, your son! ♡♡♡♡♡

BarbaraRoyale · 30/12/2018 13:41

I never, ever use this word but they are cunts
You have an amazing son, you don't need these utter shits in your life
March on, head high into 2019
They should hang their heads in shame
I'm sorry they did this to you Lindala

DeRigueurMortis · 30/12/2018 13:43

As the wonderful Maya Angelou said: "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time".

I'm in awe of your decisiveness whilst being aghast at their utter callous insensitivity.

Circle the wagons with your lovely son and don't look back.

Anyone know who can behave like this doesn't deserve to be in your life and I can't personally see any apology/explanation making this better. Some things really are unforgivable and this is one of them.

Thanks
BigChocFrenzy · 30/12/2018 13:44

So sorry 💐

You are so strong;
you've raised a wonderful son who is your strong support
you don't take disgusting shit from anyone

you deserve so much better friends
.. and you'll find some.

strangerthongs · 30/12/2018 13:44

your son should block all the children, as should you. don't engage with any of them ever again.

blitzen · 30/12/2018 13:49

Your friends sound like dicks, @Linda. Glad you have blocked them. Your son sounds great. Good luck with moving on 💐

PristineCondition · 30/12/2018 13:50

Twats... don’t look back, they’ve shown their colours

mumof2sarah · 30/12/2018 13:51

Your son sounds wonderful OP, I'm glad he's got your back in person not just us on here xxx

GrandmaSteglitszch · 30/12/2018 13:51

Definitely give no info to the ACs or anyone else. Those creatures know what they did.
Well done for your reaction - dumping their stuff was the least of what they deserved.
{{{hugs}}}

whyayepetal · 30/12/2018 13:52

So sorry OP - your former friends behaved appallingly.

You sound fabulous, strong, kind and fair, as does your son. The apple didn't fall far from the tree with him now, did it? Smile

Flowers for you and CakeCakeCakeCakeCake for your son and his mates (will keep their strength up Grin)

pantyclaws · 30/12/2018 13:53

What sort of parents get their kids to do their dirty work for them?!

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 30/12/2018 13:57

Glad your son and his friends are there and will completely have your back.

Can't believe the gall of them, trying to get their kids to find out "why their mums are so upset" - fucking ask them yourselves and get them to explain it, kids!!

maras2 · 30/12/2018 13:57

God Bless your lovely family linda. Flowers
You handled that vile situation with far more dignity than I could have ever managed.
I hope those evil bitches never know a days peace Angry.

Original poster
LindaLa · 30/12/2018 13:59

Ok you lot!
I'm about to do something I never thought I would:

PLEASE DAILY MAIL, please stick this in your ridiculous paper.

Original bitch uses your paper as a bible.

(I may have had too much sugar....)

OP posts:
InsomniacAnonymous · 30/12/2018 14:00

Wouldn't it be good if one of the fucking bitches were to see this thread?

Schuyler · 30/12/2018 14:02

I’m not going to comment on their behaviour as others have said it all but I wanted to say you sound fucking amazing. Hold your head high. Wishing you all the best for 2019. 💐

JillScarlet · 30/12/2018 14:04

The most important thing is, OP, you have nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to be embarrassed about.

You were abused by the scum of the earth, and could not have prevented it.
You were betrayed by new scum, and could not have r orctef that.

You are the better person, better than all of them and have raised your sin the same. Be proud.

proseccoaficionado · 30/12/2018 14:04

This is terrible, OP. Such a bunch of crazy, arrogant, bitches.

Please never accept an apology if they do apologise.

I hope you are ok!

TheWiseWomansFear · 30/12/2018 14:04

Wow, that's a low blow. How horrendous for you ThanksThanks

PumpkinKitty82 · 30/12/2018 14:08

Holy fuck. What utter pieces of shit

Aeroflotgirl · 30/12/2018 14:11

What spineless cowards using their kids to message you, instead of trying to contact you to apologise and explain themselves.

BigusBumus · 30/12/2018 14:12

Aeroflot, she has blocked them on everything so they can't contact her. Unless they turn up at her door I suppose?

SusanneLinder · 30/12/2018 14:13

OP, I think you are amazing as is your son. Your ex- friends are cunts.
I could not IMAGINE sitting in a pub and listening to a "friend" saying this to another friend without calling them on it. And to laugh is unbelievable.
I would link their adult kids to this thread, but likely result is that they will play the victim.
"It was only a joke" from original friend
" we didn't KNOW from other two"
The adult kids will indeed know some of it, but I bet they don't know the truth.

Flowers for you OP

QwertyLou · 30/12/2018 14:15

OP I understand the sentiment, but wonder if having it in a tabloid might feel like a violation of your privacy. It sounds like you may not have liked the original friend much (even before this horrific betrayal) and that permanent disengagement is for the best Flowers

Glittertwins · 30/12/2018 14:16

I read the OP's post and couldn't believe what I'd read. I'm speechless that that was said. Good on your son too.

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