The Eu owes us nothing. If we are leaving the union we can no longer enjoy the benefits of membership.
Well. You can argue with that. But historically, generally when people want to leave larger unions, empires etc, then if they’ve just tossed out leavers and given them two fingers or tried to coerce them to stay - well historically those have been the actions of entities that were really rather cunty. They’re generally regarded as evil in fact. Organisations that behaved like this were European Empires, the Catholic or the USSR. They thought it would make them stronger. And it did in the short term, but in the long term it created the festering resentment and hatred that was their downfall.
And the EU does owe us something. We are the second largest economy in the EU and our public debt is quite a bit lower than the third and fourth biggest economies, which means that financially, we’re very important to the EU. They don’t want us to leave because it’s going to be a struggle for them to cover that absence of money and trade, especially in the event of a no deal.
So, because they don’t want us to go, they’ve decided aggression and threats of punishment and trying to scare a reluctant population back into the EU. They could have chosen to stop us leaving or tempt us back with honey. Tried to alleviate the problems people here perceive they have because of the EU. But they don’t want to (and no supposedly helping deprived areas with projects that pour money into the wealthy while just creating a handful of dead end minimum wage jobs for locals doesn’t count).
And really, those are the tactics of bloody nasty, scary people. Coercive entities which view the ‘integrity of the project’ and dogma as far more important than messy little things like people and what they want or think.
It amazes me that people actually still insist that the EU is this organisation of lovely friendly, nice Uncles who just want everybody to be happy, when actually they’re behaving like a tyranny.
History smiles much more on those who free reluctant populations rather than keeping them tethered. I suspect very much in future remainers and the EU are going to be viewed in very much the way the upper classes and British Empire were when they tried to prevent independence for states within them. As oppressive forces who were determined to preserve the status quo because it personally enriched them.