Frankexchangeofviews.....shame has nothing to do with it.
Its just common sense not to unifiy the north and roi at this point in time. Reunification can only happen if the majority's want it on all sides and that will not happen anytime soon.
But the decision for ROI seems obvious (ie no reunion with the north)It comes down to self preservation and not wanting to bring on a civil war and economic ruin to our stable country for the sake of nationalism and because the Uk doesnt give a damn about NI.
The north is not a stable territory/country.
it has not held a government for over a year,runs segregated schools(thankfully less then the past..baby steps)and theres still ongoing tensions that are always just at a tipping point..not to mention its an economic mess.None of those issues are easily fixed.Theres centuries of divisions there and the troubles are barely a generation ago.
However its the northern irish themselves who need to rebuild their region and take the steps towards stability. The political madness of the 2 extremes needs to change and other alternatives need a chance to represent the more moderate sections of society,the ongoing segregation via religion needs to stop and the kids growing up in the region need to integrate...its harder to demonise the opposite side when you have to interact...and the people who live in that region need to figure out how to live side by side as neither Irish or British but as Northern Irish.
Clearly the british dont consider the ni british given the border fiasco atm and the Irish states have been seperated for to long with to much history and change in both regions to simply unify and become a Ireland united at this point. Until the region learns to coexist and manage itself it shouldnt aggravated by outside forces....but the region simple isnt just one of the other..irish or british...its both and neither at the moment.
Reunification is likely to kick off civil war in northern Ireland as the unionists wont want to be "Irish" or be happy with the decision. A hard border will set off the nationalists as its the opposite of what the gfa represents.
Both of those situs means unrest and possible civil war for the region... who in their right mind would want that? No matter what choice is made at this point people will lose.
The gfa isnt perfect but its worked well for the last 20 years. It has created the semblence of stability in the north amd over time keeping those rules may allow the region to actually develop as its own entity. The people of the ROI didnt vote to change it.The majority of people in NI didnt vote to change it.
The uk needs to reconsider their options about brexit and stop trying to palm off all their issues. Maybe if they had actually tried harder to stabilise and improve the region a union would be possible and they would be rid of the issue of the north. But that hasnt happened and now its being used as a political play piece as well with no concern for the citizens whos lives are going to be affected no matter what choice is taken.