I just don't want his parents knowing yet

[Valeo]

I know I am probably being unreasonable but I just don't want to tell my husbands parents that I am pregnant yet. His parents annoy me at the best of times, I've never particularly seen eye to eye with his mum as she has caused so many arguments between DH and I over the years, luckily DH has now seen what she is like and we no longer argue and we tend to spend most of our time with my side of the family as a result. They are very self centred and I don't agree with their lifestyle. I am enjoying my pregnancy so much and am really enjoying the fact that only us and my parents know. I am 8 weeks so would like to hold off until our first scan to tell his parents but he is insisting that we tell them this week as we wont see them again until end of January (they live 2.5 hours away). I don't know what it is that is making me so annoyed about telling them, maybe I am still a bit bitter and so I am enjoy having this lovely secret from them I just don't know.

[puddlesplashing]

So how far along are you? 3 months or 8 weeks 🤨

[Fairylightfurore]

In these situations I would always go with tell the people who you would tell if anything happened to the baby and only those people. Congratulations op I am sure they'll be delighted whenever you choose to break the news.

[ladymariner]

Op, YABVU!