Marg, you are the one who said "No I don't think Scotland is a nation. That makes me cringe." That is a person who doesn't want independence, doing Scotland down. That viewpoint that you have, that is embarrassing to me. Maybe you're right and not all unionists do Scotland down, but you certainly are with that statement.
In my experience, Unionists get very angry when Scotland, as a country, is talked up. They take great pains to tell me how Scotland could not be independent and should not be independent, saying that it would be poor and there would be no jobs etc etc. They don't explain how Labour in Scotland would do any better than the SNP are currently, when we see how Labour in Wales are doing (hint, badly). They don't explain how Tories in Scotland would do any better when we see how Tories are doing in Westminster (hint - well, surely no hint is needed here, it's a complete fuck up). The SNP may not be your cup of tea with their desire for independence for Scotland, but I would have thought that their desire to see Scotland do well, their promotion of Scottish brands and values, their desire to mitigate the worst Tory policies for our people such as the bedroom tax and better social care policies, their building social housing and other housing, their strong position on the EU which is clear and sustained and which is what the large majority of Scottish voters want, is not something that deserves the absolute loathing that I see from Scottish unionists.
Scotland's food and drink industries are famous around the world. However Unionists are happy to see the Saltire covered with the UK flag, to have Scotland's brand erased. They pretend that getting angry about this is a stupid thing to do. They deliberately miss the point, that Scottish food and drink is respected throughout the world as being of high quality and high standards, and don't seem to care about this as long as we are seen as UK and not Scotland. We are told that we are ridiculous and that this is all nonsense. The cliche of having a chip on our shoulder is trotted out.