Three time flash is not just an accident?

[TheQueef]

Currently discussing with adult DS.

Yesterday I had some day surgery. The only two people in the DS recovery were myself and a man approx 50.
First time I was in bed across and had a full uninterrupted view but we had both had anus and bum surgery so I assumed it was inadvertent.
I got up and dressed so I could sit up and not be in bed opposite.
Two minutes afterwards he wanted up and moving to the arm chairs where I sat.
This is where the three come from.
First he sat with his gown rucked up and knob out. The sister brought a blanket.
Second time leg over the chair arm, balls out (how he was moving his legs after a fissure repair I don't know) Again staff covered him up.
Third time he actually laid it on his leg, like a balding water vole in a satsuma net.

I moved and was discharged.
I was so angry on the was home that DS and me are still butting heads.
He said it must be an accidental flash but IMO it was all deliberate.
Oppressive, sinister and deliberate.

Have I had too much mumsnet or is DS wrong?

Thank you for the well wishes, it hurts like hell I'm being stoic watching RHWcheshire about bed rest and not scoffing biscuits.

I'm not certain what painkillers he was on but his anaesthetic was epidural same as me hence us being first in and out.
I know he had a fissure repair (overheard) and at least one other bum procedure so when epidural finishes completely he must be in agony.
Especially after his Kenny Everett legs for his display
I'm still convinced he was a seasoned flasher.

And this is why women need SINGLE SEX spaces and SELF ID NEEDS TO BE SCRAPPED.
Bloody fuming you had to endure this while recovering OP

Some posters here have asked why the OP didn't shout and confront the man there and then.

You only have to read some of the replies from the apologists on here to see why. Women are socialised to be nice and kind. To consider that, instead of being a dirty little flasher, this 50 year old man might instead be suffering from innumerable conditions and issues that excuse his quite deliberate attempts to expose himself to the OP.

So much better to let a pervert go on his merry way than to risk hurting his feelings.

Oh my fucking god - can we STOP trying to excuse his behaviour with dementia? He's about 50 FFS. Ageism alive and well on here as usual I see. And let's face it, it'd have to be pretty advanced dementia for him to have lost his inhibitions in this way

50ish (OP did not know his exact age) is not too old for early onset dementia. He probably didn’t have it though.

Of course he didn't have dementia. He's just a dirty pervert.

Please also report this to the police. He may already be known to them for this type of behaviour. If there is a reason for his behaviour then let them get to the bottom of it. Excuse the pun 😆