AIBU Please read thread as it's a sensitive subject regarding sex

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So basically I am fwb with this guy n we have been meeting up a few times a week for a chill n some sex, no big deal. We both mutually understand that's all it is I do like him and he says he's likes me but we just have hot sex most of the time. One or two occasions I been over to see him and we haven't had sex which I didn't over think. Anyways my sensitive question is AIBU to question why I went over last night and for the first time he decided to go down on me? We never discussed it but I did consent when I realised where this was going and enjoyed myself. We then had sex and i went home. Question is he never has done that ever before and it was just so random but felt right. Is it just part of sex as I thort myself it's quite intimate and was unexpected and i have had fwb previous who never did that. I am just feeling abit confused and before people start ripping in to me i did consent and did enjoy it and i am prob just over thinking it but it is quite intimate and had me wondering wtf is going on and thankyou in advance for all ur replies x

Are you 16?

I don't like to think about AnyFucker having sex either. It's like when you're a kid and you see your teacher in the supermarket and realise they're a real person.

What am I..some sexless old maiden aunt ?

Could just be that he felt more comfortable and wanted to do that! Some men do it to every hookup & others like to wait a bit/have a 'connection' AFAIK

What am I..some sexless old maiden aunt ?

You're like everyone's old maiden aunt. We don't want to find out you're not sexless

Me and my old FWB often engaged in oral sex. There was no strings attached and even now we're still close friends but without the benefits. I don't know why you're over thinking this, it's the same as you giving him a blow job. There's no added intimacy just because the roles have changed. If you feel it's too intimate and you don't want him to do it again, let him know.

It's not weird to dislike oral sex. If you enjoy it, then great, but don't tell others they would like it if it was done right!
I've never liked it. I don't mind giving oral sex but I don't like it done to me.
It's depressing too that people say they expect their partner to give it! Why would you want someone to do something they dislike? Women go mad if men expect certain sexual practices so why think a man is wrong if he doesn't want to go down on you?
I've had partners who expect anal sex but I won't do that, so does that make me selfish?
Oral sex a deal breaker? That's really sad.