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To believe there is no such thing as a female penis?

542 replies

Shriek · 10/11/2018 15:15

Ppl with penis raping, yet called women.
WTAF! Gangs of ppl with penis stamping on man's head, referred to as 'women'
Wtf is going on, has the world gone mad?

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SlipperyLizard · 10/11/2018 19:10

Women don’t have penises.

That’s not transphobia, it is a fact of life.

Transgender people should be able to live their lives with the respect that all humans deserve, but a man cannot turn into a woman (and vice versa).

selepele · 10/11/2018 19:11

a woman cannot have a penis.

selepele · 10/11/2018 19:12

slipperylizard agree!

Avegemitesandwich · 10/11/2018 19:13

Are the likes of Myra Hindley and Rose West not women? They must not be if doing awful things is something only men do.

Firstly no one said that only men do awful things.

Secondly, it's interesting how in the 'women do bad things too you know' arguement, the two names that are always invoked are that of Hindley and West. Because women committing this sort of crime is actually really rare. And even both of those women didn't act alone and were acting with men. It's almost impossible to find cases of women carrying out those sorts of crimes completely alone.

Men on the other hand.... Well the list is long and not-so-distinguished.

WomanOfTime · 10/11/2018 19:16

YANBU. If a person has a penis, he's a man.

If saying this is transphobic, then sorry, reality is transphobic. The statement remains true.

JAPAB · 10/11/2018 19:17

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius nowhere on this thread has anyone said that only men do evil things - NOWHERE!

Isn't it implicit in the OP? They ask WTAF is going on when someone who rapes is called a woman. Or5 someone who violently assaults another is called a woman.

How else can that be taken other than women = someone who does not do awful things.

Jog22 · 10/11/2018 19:18

Here's an example of the thoughts of a trans identified male. Read and decide yourselves if you agree with the actual definition of woman or his.
twitter.com/cmclymer/status/1060699882506383360?s=19

Shriek · 10/11/2018 19:19

The debate is here. I am disgusted that you call me phobic.

I think I have actually spoken in support of lgbt. I am not calling you names @spannablue
This is trying to shut down freedom of speech, and I'm sure you wanted and needed that from your peer group women to establish your rights to be heard. It's a gross way to talk to someone who's simply asking questions because what they're hearing and seeing going on around them a) doesn't make sense to me
b) is actively exposing women, some very vulnerable, and their DC to harm
c) massively distorts reporting of crime figures which abusive men /murderers of women and children can hide behind. You support this.
As a woman , just how can you? Do you not care about other women and children and the glaringly obvious stats about the risks women and children are exposed to daily?
You wish to fight for removing protections from them?

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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 10/11/2018 19:20

No, @JAPAB - it is most certainly NOT implicit in the OP. It is not even remotely implied in the OP - and saying it is makes you look truly desperate to find something to be offended at!

JacquesHammer · 10/11/2018 19:21

*They ask WTAF is going on when someone who rapes is called a woman. Or5 someone who violently assaults another is called a woman.

How else can that be taken other than women = someone who does not do awful things*

A woman by law cannot rape. That isn’t a judgement call, it is a fact.

FuriousOfSurrey · 10/11/2018 19:22

Totally agree with OP. My user name will tell you how the idea that some women have penises makes me feel. Women do not have penises. If saying that women, Adult Human Females, do not have penises is transphobic then I'm transphobic, I'm bigoted, whatevs. Apparently child safeguarding is bigoted too. And people with penises are still men. True fact, that is. No-one actually believes people with penises are actually women. And if they say they do they are lying. I'm a great believer in the Truth, dishonesty is destructive in any social interaction. So you call me transphobic and I'll call you dishonest, that seems fair to me.

maddiemookins16mum · 10/11/2018 19:23

Men are born with a penis and testicles. Women with a womb, ovaries and a vagina.

End of.

Shriek · 10/11/2018 19:27

No, absolutely no JAPAB is this:
Woman rapes - impossible - the law says so, rape is penis related, you cannot say women rape.
Or are you telling us all that a penis is female?

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FuriousOfSurrey · 10/11/2018 19:31

Shriek - he's going to say he does believe that and then we will all catch a waft of JAPAB's burning knicker elastic.

MyAuntyBadger · 10/11/2018 19:33

YANBU op, this is Men's Rights Activism, I'm glad it's finally being seen for what it is. Worst thing to happen to women's rights in my life time and anyone with daughters/granddaughters should be very concerned.

As an aside, I'm sick to fucking death of being diagnosed as having a phobia by people who I very much doubt are qualified to diagnose it. I am as certain as I can be that I have no irrational fears, but I am perfectly capable of believing my eyes.

Bowlofbabelfish · 10/11/2018 19:34

JAPAB

In English law the crime of rape requires a penis.
Women do not have penises.
Thus, under English law they cannot directly rape.

The ONLY way a woman can be convicted of rape is as an accessory/facilitator and I’ve only seen one case of this - a woman held the victim down. It was newsworthy at the time for the rarity.

Of the six ‘women’ who were convicted of rape last year, how many do you think were penis owners?

Women do not have penises
Humans cannot change sex.

Shriek · 10/11/2018 19:34

Grin Grin Grin Grin burning knicker elastic furious

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FuriousOfSurrey · 10/11/2018 19:38

Die in a fire v your pants are on fire Shriek (Grin)

timetodothis · 10/11/2018 19:38

it's pretty straightforward actually. If you have a penis then you are a man. If you want to live as a woman - lose the penis.

Absolutely.
There's no such thing as a female penis.
Same as there's no such thing as a male vagina.

Shriek · 10/11/2018 19:40

Whereas men are pinning women down daily, and murdering them, and that's not as remarkable????
It fucking stinks

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timetodothis · 10/11/2018 19:41

I'm still waiting to see someone give birth through their penis.

Grin

Asuming they would get the baby through their narrow MALE shaped pelvises in the first place.

Shriek · 10/11/2018 19:43

That's true, a phobia is a medical dx, its not possible to dx another without medical qualification.
So, its name-calling and intended to threaten and harm

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Shriek · 10/11/2018 19:54

Man pelvis
Man penis, testes
Different to
Female/woman's pelvis for giving birth
Woman vulva, ovaries, vagina

I learnt these 'facts of life' as they used to be called.
Now parts of our societal institions are insisting aa female penis exists.
Like The Sun, women only prisons, refuges, police, Canada!

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Getoffthetableplease · 10/11/2018 19:59

YANBU.

Penis = boy/man

The knee jerk accusation of being a transphobe/bigot for stating that penises are male and should be kept out of sex segregated spaces for women is ridiculous, maddening and really fucking scary now the big boys in charge seem to be chanting it too.

Shriek · 10/11/2018 20:02

Who are these big boys I need names to know who is actively supporting risking the lives of women and children

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