Context: 3 floor house. I have a study/workroom in the attic where I spend a lot of my time for house admin on computer/ sewing machine/ studying (I am doing some distance learning courses).
When DH comes in from work (as he has just done...) he gets huffy if I don't go downstairs to say 'hello' almost immediately 
I always shout down 'hello' and usually will wander down when I've finished whatever I was busy with - never usually more than about 10-15 mins - and will pour a glass of wine or something.
He says it makes him feel 'unwelcome' and also complains if the lights haven't been put on/ the house is dark downstairs.
?? Surely this is a bit controlling ?? A bit 50s Stepford Wifey ??