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To be fed up beyond belief with the trans activists

553 replies

snapnfarter · 17/10/2018 16:40

I'm so sick of the bigotry now. Surely these people just want to have a piss in peace without being hassled?
What rights is it exactly that the trans activists are shit scared that women are going to lose out on?
I wish they'd all just be quiet and let others live their lives how they see fit without reprisal or judgement from narrow minded idiots.
I honestly feel that this debate is just a platform for the bigots to congregate to attack a minority because we all know what attaching ethnic minorities, gays, lesbians etc is just not acceptable. How is this any different?

OP posts:
DonkeyHotei · 17/10/2018 17:00

It's OK, OP. People were shouted down for speaking up for minorities throughout history. They will ridicule you, try to call into question your intelligence. But times will move on and the bigots will get left behind like they always do.

Aeroflotgirl · 17/10/2018 17:01

Op I do think you need to read up more about how this affects women's rights, and voices: from women being attacked in Female prison's by male offenders identifying as women to get close to them, or for a softer ride, to a cross dressing man being voted Britain's top ten Female executives, to a Transwomen winning a cycling world championchip, when they obviously have an unfair advantage over women, being bigger and with more muscle mass. Where does it end! This is what women are getting angry at. The slow errosion of their voices by men.

PositivelyPERF · 17/10/2018 17:01

OP reminds me of the Scottish woman who overheard my accent in a Glasgow hotel, and started telling me how all the problems in NI could be solved. She didn’t have a fucking clue, but insisted she was right. 🙄

By the way I had a brilliant time in Glasgow. 😁

snapnfarter · 17/10/2018 17:01

Oh my God. Here we go... being called handmaidens. Pathetic.

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Soubriquet · 17/10/2018 17:01

You are aware that a transwoman does not need to have surgery to be called a “woman” aren’t you?

They can keep their penis. It’s called a lady dick apparently and lesbians are abused for not wanting to have sex with with these lady dicks

HemanOrSheRa · 17/10/2018 17:02

Actually, DonkeyHotei the OP better make damn sure they are getting their terminology correct if they are going to say things like 'I am fed up beyond belief of trans activists' in RL. They could find themselves in unpleasant and possibly dangerous situations.

Aeroflotgirl · 17/10/2018 17:02

I would start reading here fairplayforwomen.com/campaignforfemalerights/

Mumthedogsbeensick · 17/10/2018 17:02

@Bananacloud it was a biscuit but I think a shield is more appropriate!

Bombardier25966 · 17/10/2018 17:02

In a women-only space, such as a women’s toilet?

Do people generally get their bits out in public when you go to public toilets? Or do they wait until they're in a cubicle, where no one else can see what you've got?

these views about female only spaces, although valid, are being used as a stick to batter trans people.

Perfectly put. But there's no point in trying to have a rational conversation about it on here. Sadly it has become an echo chamber for those with extreme views on the subject.

pigsDOfly · 17/10/2018 17:03

Ah, just seen that the OP missed a word off in the second para.

That makes the post slightly more lucid.

It still isn't about people pissing in peace and women being afraid of seeing a penis. Again, if you think that's all it's about you need to do more research.

Doesn't make someone a bigot because they aren't comfortable with their rights and safety being trampled under foot.

FeckTheMagicDragon · 17/10/2018 17:03

If you would like to know what transsexuals think about read this quick statement.

transsexualwomen1.blogspot.com/2018/10/transsexual-women-opposing-self-id-why.html?spref=tw&m=1

And by transexual I mean the men who have been diagnosed with disphorya and have been living as women for up to 40 Years. Not cross dressers (Eddie Izzard), part time trans/cross dresser (Phil Bunce) or abusive men conning the system (Karen White)

Soubriquet · 17/10/2018 17:04

Also, isn’t it funny that these “women” are demanding access to women’s bathrooms, jails, hostages and even sports yet actual women aren’t demanding access to men’s rooms.

They get to stay completely male Hmm

Elephantinacravat · 17/10/2018 17:04

I am baffled by anyone who thinks that self ID is a good idea, or by anyone who thinks that women shouldn't be entitled to certain single sex spaces and provisions. Baffled.

busybarbara · 17/10/2018 17:04

Do people generally get their bits out in public when you go to public toilets?

Exactly. Honestly, how many times have you seen a fanjo that's not your own while in the toilets? If you can't see other people's fanjos, you shouldn't be seeing their potential willys either.

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 17/10/2018 17:05

*I'm not on the side of females, no.

No. Really?

PerfectPenquins · 17/10/2018 17:05

Soubrique Ah but you see that's ok as time will move on and those selfish lesbians will (be forced) learn to accept a penis into their sex lives or otherwise be abused for life. Celibacy will be popular!

Im high on sarcasm today Wink

Beerincomechampagnetastes · 17/10/2018 17:05

Hahahah Grin
What a plonker.

DonkeyHotei · 17/10/2018 17:05

Actually HemanOrSheRa the OP doesn't need to make damn sure of anything. The OP is on the right side of history. You who disagree with basic human rights being afforded to trans people are the ones who aren't and the only ones who need to "damn well" do anything.

Chosenone · 17/10/2018 17:06

We're not bigots. We're not Transphobes. It is a fact that women dont have penises. Transwomen do, and are entitled to a safe and happy life without discrimination, bit they're not women.

PositivelyPERF · 17/10/2018 17:06

Pathetic As is your lack of understanding. If you’re going to shout bigot at women, at least gave the decency to back up your abuse with some level of research. You’re just embarrassing yourself. I’m very very disappointed in you, OP. We usually get a better class of argument. There’s just no sport in dismantling your arguments, when you don’t even know what your arguments are. Sigh. 😔 I’m away off to find a better class of TRA/handmaiden, but I’ll pop back later, after some of the more patient posters have educated you.

Bombardier25966 · 17/10/2018 17:06

I wish people wouldn't quote Fair Play for Women as a source of balanced information. Their agenda is quite clear, they're not pro women, they're anti trans. You can be pro both.

www.independent.co.uk/voices/41-per-cent-trans-transgender-trans-women-prisoners-sex-offenders-false-study-statistic-this-is-why-a8072431.html

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 17/10/2018 17:06

I know I'm not educated on the issue

Yet you are vociferous in your views.

Elephantinacravat · 17/10/2018 17:07

You who disagree with basic human rights being afforded to trans people are the ones who aren't and the only ones who need to "damn well" do anything.

What 'basic human rights' do you believe that trans people don't currently have?

Aeroflotgirl · 17/10/2018 17:08

Very good statement FeckTheMagicDragon, these are the people women don't have a problem with, it is the loud bullying Transactivists that want to shout down women, bully them and trample all over their rights and voices. Misogeny at its finest.

PerfectPenquins · 17/10/2018 17:08

What rights dont trans people currently have?

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